Stress and anxiety: College application process can bring both; how consultant can help
Wendy Briley knows the stress and anticipation that can come with the college application process. With two daughters of her own, who both landed at UNC-Wilmington, she's experienced it. And she sees it with the families she helps through her business, Briley College Consulting.
Posted — UpdatedWendy Briley knows the stress and anticipation that can come with the college application process. With two daughters of her own, who both landed at UNC-Wilmington, she's experienced it.
Briley, who lives in Wake Forest and also retired last year as director of St. Mark's United Methodist Church Preschool, shares more about how she helps families and what college-bound students and parents should be thinking about. Stay tuned later this week for another post from Briley about the 10 things high school juniors should be doing now as they prepare to apply to college.
Here's a Q&A:
Students are usually concerned with finding a college that not only gives them a great academic experience, but will meet their social needs as well. Students want to find a campus that is a good fit and allows them to be part of a larger community.
My job is to work with what each of them has in mind and help them to work together as a family and find the college that best meets their academic, social and financial needs.
The college application process can be very labor intensive. It requires a lot of research. As a consultant, I have access to a myriad of resources and the experience to provide that information to students and families in a way that allows them to make informed decisions without doing all the research. I am also a student of colleges and universities. I am constantly visiting colleges and universities and can provide real insight as to what colleges are looking for in a student.
Emotions tend to run high between the student and their family members during this process. Parents often think they know what is best for their student and often the student feels like they aren’t being listened to. It is helpful to have an objective educational consultant work with families to find common ground and approach the application process in a logical and informed way.
By eliminating a lot of the emotional stress that is involved with the application process, the student and parents can enjoy the process and may really discover a lot about each other. I think both the students and the parents appreciate having someone to talk with about their concerns. Ultimately, we want to empower the student to take control of the process and encourage them to embrace this time of self-exploration.
That is how I approach working with my clients. Each student is unique and every family is different. I try to really listen to what a student is saying and give them a voice. I also try to encourage communication between the student and parents. I’ve found that it is usually lack of communication that creates stress.
The college application process can be challenging, but it is also such an exciting time in a student’s life. I feel privileged to be able to work with students and families and help them in their college search. Finding a good fit college for a student is extremely important for undergraduate success.
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