Kryptonite for bullies
Like kryptonite is to Superman, peer support is to bullies. It minimizes their power!
Posted — UpdatedImportance of Peer Groups
Bullies want attention by any means necessary. All youth need to be accepted so they will modify their behavior to increase their chances of belonging and relatedness. They are willing to jeopardize their sense of values to fit in with the desirable social group. As parents, teachers, counselors, family members, and role models, we must establish safe environments to cultivate positive peer groups. And doing so, we can develop safety measures against anxiety and depression. Positive peer groups affect students through feelings of competency, empathy, moral reasoning, and self-efficacy; grades and academic achievement; pro-social behavior and attitudes; and intrapersonal communication and conflict resolution skills.
Solutions
Research shows that adolescents need to contribute to society, teens want to be significant, and they want a voice to say what is crucial for them to invest their time and energy. Ways to help youth establish positive peer groups and peer support programs will vary, but they are necessary! They teach young people to support other students effectively and increase social and emotional well-being while decreasing anti-social behavior.
The benefits of peer-to-peer support and learning have long been recognized and are especially relevant today. Evidence suggests that solution-focused approaches are effective in relation to enhancing parenting skills, dealing with anxiety, stress, suicide prevention and depression. One way for parents to support their youth is through family and youth life coaching. Life Coaching is a solution-focused approach to building positive and resilient youth.
Research indicates that coaching effectively improves behavioral and health outcomes in various family frameworks. Coaching techniques help parents to know their youth better. It is an effective intervention for enhancing self-regulatory skills – the ability to manage one’s emotions and behaviors – that truly enhances their quality of life.
Research indicates that life coaching may positively impact courage, reduce fear and anxiety and consequently be a successful intervention for people whose personal growth and development have been limited.
Treat everyone with respect
- Stop and think before you say or do something that could hurt someone.
- If you feel like being mean to someone, find something else to do. Play a game, watch TV, or talk to a friend.
- Talk to an adult you trust. They can help you find ways to be nicer to others.
- Keep in mind that everyone is different. Not better or worse. Just different.
- If you think you have bullied someone in the past, apologize. Everyone feels better.
Questions to ask your teen
- Who are your best friends, and why?
- What positive peer groups are in your school?
- If you were the bravest version of yourself, what would you do?
- What are your plans to assist in ending bullying in your school?
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