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Handle the Horrible: Raleigh mom, entrepreneur releases second book on navigating change

Local dance studio owner and author releases her second book.

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Tara Lynn
, WRAL Contributor
RALEIGH, N.C. — It's safe to say we all learned a lot about ourselves, our priorities, strengths and weaknesses during Covid. The world seemed to be in complete chaos with very little in our control. My anxiety was through the roof. The uncertainty of my career and fear of the unknown were at times crippling. Now that we are on the "other side," we can reflect on what we learned and how to take those lessons with us in the future.

That's exactly what dance instructor, mom and author Chasta Hamilton has done and lucky for us, she is sharing those lessons in her brand new book.

Chasta Hamilton is the Founder/ CEO of Stage Door Dance Productions, Founder/ President of the non-profit Girls Geared For Greatness, and author of Trash The Trophies: How to Win Without Losing Your Soul. She has been making waves for several years through her dance studio by not participating in competitions.
Now, she is sharing her new book Handle the Horrible: Change.Triage. Joy. which launches Sept. 27.

"The book focuses on the show that is our life, addressing how we can handle all of the wild, unpredictable moments that threaten to steal our joy," she told me.

Hamilton says that writing became a great outlet for her during the pandemic. She had suffered a miscarriage, her studio doors were closed with classes being held over video, stages across the country were empty and the future of the arts was unknown.

She was able to draw on her lessons as a dancer and instructor to carry her through.

One of her biggest epiphanies? Stop fighting change. You can't control it.

"Rather than be change resistant, be change persistent," Hamilton says.

"We learned (during the pandemic), that in order to function, we couldn't function constantly in crisis. We had to move along side the crisis and bring our best to the people we could."

In one excerpt from the book she writes:

“This book is here to remind you that yes, you can, even when you feel like you cannot. It’s a love letter for the people who feel like they are the only ones. The leaders who sit alone in their difficult decisions. The life circumstances that isolate us from tradition.The societal labels that wreak havoc on our peaceful sleep. The people who want to make an unpopular move, but fear the repercussions. The dreamers who long to do. I see you and feel you, because I am you.”

Hamilton's book will be available at book stores and online starting Sept. 27. For the first week of the launch, the Kindle version will be 99 cents.

Tara Lynn is a former WRAL reporter and anchor. She lends her 15-plus years in journalism to tell visual stories through love-filled photography for families of all kinds. The mother of three little humans and one senior rescue dog believes in celebrating magic in the little things, the big loves, and the imperfect moments that make the most remarkable memories. Her vision is to help families celebrate and share their love through photography and curated album artwork that become timeless keepsakes connecting multiple generations...because moments often pass in the blink of an eye, and the photographs we take connect us to our memories and our great loves, forever.
You can find Tara Lynn on Instagram at @TaraLynn_andCo and TaraLynnAndCo.com. Learn more about her photography at TaraLynnAndCoPhoto.com.

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