What We Want to Believe About Our Needs as We Age Versus The Facts
Seventy percent of people living beyond 65 will need some help for the last eight years of life. Are you prepared if you fall in that category?
Posted — UpdatedOne need not look far to know it is human nature to avoid thinking about hard things until one has to. When it comes to aging, most assume they will be part of the 25% of people over the age of 65 who will not need any help until they pass away.
In my mid-fifties and with the good fortune of good health at the moment, I’d like to believe I fall into that 25%, however, the longer I work with the aging population, the more I come to understand that it is much more likely that I won’t; that I will fall in the 75% of people over 65 who will need ongoing help.
What do I mean by “help?”
Some facts:
- For people living beyond the age of 65, 70% need some help for the last 8 years
While the facts are hard to hear, the facts can also help one better plan. And sometimes, I've found, knowing the facts can allay the anxiety associated with not knowing them.
Few people want to saddle their children with the burden of responding to their healthcare needs in crisis. Perhaps this provides a realistic grasp of the kinds of help people typically need as they age, for how long and at what cost. And while there is so much we cannot control as we age, it may also provide some motivation to take control of the health behaviors we do have control over (our eating habits, exercise, social connection, substance use, mental health, and spiritual health).
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