Traveling to see grandchildren this summer? Tips for older travelers

Not long ago, a client lamented the fact that she didn’t see her grandchildren who lived on the west coast but once a year.

“Now that they’re older, they’re too busy to visit,” she said, adding, “And I’ve had two knee replacements. I can’t manage the airport chaos.”

Travelling can be daunting for anyone, but especially for seniors. Terminals are large and spread out. Airline seats are tight. Add to that that we Americans don’t like to ask for help.

I asked my client if she had considered asking for help.

“Me? I’m only 66,” she said. “That’s for old people.”

Whether you’re sixty-six or ninety-six, here are some tips that might make a cross-continental trip less daunting.

1) Get a helping hand.
Airlines must provide free wheelchair or cart service to any traveler who asks for it. Seniors can ask at check-in. Most airlines also allow a non-traveling escort to accompany their elderly or disabled family member to their flight gate. The escort must bring a government-issued identification. Some airlines will even issue an escort pass to the family member. If there is no family member to accompany the senior to the gate, some airlines – like Delta -- will provide an escort, if given at least 48 hour notice. There are also companies like Flying Companions or First Light Travel Companion Program which, for a fee, will provide an escort.

2) Ask for special security clearance.
For disabled travelers or travelers 75 and older, airlines provide an expedited security check and do not require seniors to remove their shoes or jackets. If they are in a wheelchair, there is often a special gate which allows them to circumvent waiting in line.

3) Carry all medications in your carry-on.
No one needs the additional stress of losing crucial medications if their bag goes missing for a day or two. Security waives liquid limits in the case of seniors with medications. To facilitate the process, package all medications in a clear ziplock bag.

4) Carefully consider seating options.
Sitting in a bulkhead, which offers more leg room, might be helpful. While more expensive, it might be worthwhile to consider upgrading to a larger seat close to the front.

5) Plan for medical devices.
Seniors with pacemakers and other medical devices can request a pat-down rather than going through the scanner. Seniors with oxygen tanks must inform the airline 48 hours beforehand and bring an FAA approved portable oxygen tank. Tanks cannot be used during flight. Some airlines require a special formed signed by an MD.

6) Take advantage of special boarding and deplaning assistance.
Why not--if it gets you to see your grandchildren without a hitch?