Parenting Tip: Making sure teacher, student online discussions are appropriate
Dr. Amy Tiemann of Kidpower North Carolina shares tips on how to ensure student and teacher online discussions remain safe.
Posted — UpdatedThe story is disturbing on a number of levels, especially when online chats between teachers and students are becoming more prevalent..
Here's my Q&A with Tiemann:
Yes, it is an issue that parents should keep an eye on. The key boundary here is that teachers should not have a personal, private relationship with students inside or outside the classroom and that includes online.
Teacher communication must be professional and stay focused on official school work or activities.
You can see how this could be a slippery slope very quickly, becoming personal, if teachers are unaware of these issues or truly predatory. Schools need to be on top of this with their staff and have clear guidelines and expectations. It is really important for schools to communicate this especially because younger teachers will be of a generation that is used to constant online communication and they may not understand the boundary issues involved in emailing or texting a student.
One idea is to have teacher-student communications/emails cc'd to the parents as well.
Teachers should stick closely to official business and I believe they should not develop side conversations with students online. What is difficult is that, as I said, technology is evolving so quickly. But if schools use online contact then they are responsible for setting guidelines, informing staff and families about "the rules," and enforcing them.
Parents should be able to read any communications from schools to their kids. Tell kids this in advance and matter-of-factly so it's not covert snooping. School communication should be public.
And finally, don't make children feel like they are being punished here, Just set clear rules and tell kids "if there is anything that bothers you or worries, you, please tell me and we'll figure out what to do."
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