Jeff Rohrer, left, a former NFL player, performs a song he wrote about Joshua Ross, right, during their wedding ceremony in Los Angeles, Nov. 18, 2018. Rohrer, a former Dallas Cowboys linebacker, became the first known NFL player, past or present, to marry a man when he wed Ross, a 36-year-old aesthetician, at the Wattles Mansion Gardens. “This wedding broke down walls,” Rohrer said. (Alex Welsh/The New York Times)