Go Ask Mom

Grief Group helps kids mourning death of loved one; new session starts Monday

Cameron's Kids Grief Group, which is usually held in Wake Forest, will launch on Monday. The program will run from 6:30 p.m. to 8 p.m., Mondays, through Nov. 19. It's designed for ages 6 to 12.

Posted Updated
Cameron's Kids Grief Group
By
Sarah Lindenfeld Hall
, Go Ask Mom editor
RALEIGH, N.C. — A grief group designed for kids who are dealing with the death of a loved one will start up next week in Raleigh.

Cameron's Kids Grief Group, which is usually held in Wake Forest, will launch on Monday. The program will run from 6:30 p.m. to 8 p.m., Mondays, through Nov. 19, at the Waste Industries office, 3301 Benson Dr., Raleigh. It's designed for kids ages 6 to 12.

Carolyn Zahnow, founder and executive director of The Shore Grief Center, has run the program for about seven years. Zahnow, who I have written about many times before, is trained by The Dougy Center, a leader in child bereavement. She also has firsthand experience helping a grieving child. Her son Cameron was 15 when he lost his dad to a brain tumor. Sadly, he died by suicide three years later.

During the program, kids have a simple dinner, introduce themselves, talk about who died and then get involved in various activities that typically involve ways to remember their family member or friend.

"It's a lot of arts and crafts," said Zahnow, "but it's also when the facilitator can sit down beside the kids and that's when they'll share their deeper thoughts. While they're doing arts and crafts, they'll talk a little bit more."

Courtesy: The Shore Grief Center

Zahnow said the group experience can be therapeutic for kids, especially those who think they're alone among their peers as they grieve.

"It does normalize, especially in the case of a suicide," she said.

In one group, two young boys who both were mourning the death of a loved one by suicide realized they weren't alone.

"They thought they were the only ones," she said.

But the group can be helpful for kids regardless of how the loved one died.

"Kids kind of need it more to get them on the right track," she said. "So they can manage school and everything that goes with it."

Registration is required as space is limited and so the program's organizers can ensure there are enough supplies for all.

To register, email info@theshoregriefcenter.org or call 919-368-6286.

A grant from Heartland Hospice is supporting the grief group in Raleigh.

 Credits 

Copyright 2024 by Capitol Broadcasting Company. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.