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A Mother's Day message for those who are suffering

As we celebrate mothers and Mother's Day, take time to stand with those for whom Mother's Day is a painful reminder.

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WRAL Azalea Gardens
By
Katherine Kussmaul
Rev. Katherine Kussmaul shared this message with us in anticipation of Mother's Day. It was originally written and posted on Mother’s Day 2017.

As we celebrate mothers and Mother’s Day, take time to stand with those for whom Mother’s Day is a painful reminder…

…of babies never conceived, of babies conceived and lost before birth, of babies born too early,

…of heartache and loss, of difficult decisions, of impossible choices

…of abuse, neglect or abandonment

…of children who have died, who are missing or who are incarcerated.

…of mothers who have died, who have disappeared or who are incarcerated.

…of what was, of what wasn’t, and of what will never be the same again.

Those for whom Mother’s Day is difficult are our neighbors, our friends, our loved ones – they are sitting near us – and their pain is real.

As we celebrate mothers and Mother’s Day, take time to stop: see who is present, notice who is missing, pay attention to those who may be having a difficult time and reach out - how (or whether) we reach out is an expression of our “mothering” one another.

Peace to you and yours, kk

Katherine is a graduate of The College of Wooster (BMusEd), Duke Divinity School (MDiv) and Aquinas Institute of Theology (DMin in Preaching) as well as being a trained End-of-Life Doula. She is a Presbyterian pastor and has spent the last 23 years serving congregations and communities in Leeds (England), Cary, Urbana (Illinois) and Raleigh. She completed a Chaplain Residency (2020-2021) at WakeMed where she continues to work as a Contract Chaplain. She also provides care as a PRN Spiritual Care Counselor at Transitions LifeCare, teaches confirmation at West Raleigh Presbyterian and coaches writing as a freelance editor.
Katherine cherishes opportunities for meaningful conversations about topics that matter: birth & death, living & dying, hopes & dreams, joy & grief and those “big questions” with which we struggle. She is a daughter, sister, aunt of five and partner. She loves the Pittsburgh Steelers, preparing meals for others, laughing with friends and spending time with Dibley, her bichon frisé, who yes, IS named after The Vicar of Dibley.

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