6 tips to keep a bored teen busy
Keeping them busy at 2 is a heck of lot easier than at 13.
Posted — UpdatedWhen I was knee deep in diapers, formula and onesies, I couldn’t wait for my kids to be older. I dreamed of the day when they could clean, feed and dress themselves! No more sitting on the floor for hours trying to entertain them. Wouldn’t that be amazing?
Then before I knew it, poof, they were teenagers. Just like that. Finally, a little reprieve.
If you have a teen, I am sure that you just cringed a little and can relate. They may be bigger but so are their wants and needs and cost of everything. What I didn’t realize when I was hoping for better times way back when was that keeping them busy at 2 is a heck of lot easier than at 13.
I found myself going crazy trying to keep them busy. We all know that there is nothing worse than a bored teen.
Despite how many extracurricular activities - sports and classes we try to keep them busy and out of trouble, they always get bored at some point.
My kids have even gotten bored when their friends are over.
What do you do?
I can hear it now,
Then the teen goes off to the fridge and stars into space as if something is going to grow in there.
Have you had this conversation? Please tell me you have.
The only plus in this scenario is that thankfully that ridiculous conversation killed 5 minutes of their boredom. The bad news is that as a busy parent I can’t get that 5 minutes back.
So here are a few ideas on things that I used to keep my teens busy:
- Suggest small very specific tasks versus large general ones
- If I ask for help with dinner, I get a resounding “Ewww, no.” If I ask them to cut up an onion into tiny little pieces, I’ll get a raise of an eyebrow which is a good first step.
- If I suggest helping with laundry, that may seem overwhelming. BUT if I ask for something more specific like folding the towels and putting them away, that sometimes works.
- NOW not all kids are created equal. So ask with that caveat in mind.
After you’ve had a teen, you realize that the diaper and formula stage may not be so bad. So, the next time, they have a little downtime and are looking to be occupied, take a breath, and consult your new list of ideas. Let me know how it goes. Good luck!
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