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Playing video games with your kids can boost communication, experts say

Consumer Reports says parents can foster better communication with their kids through video games.

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When kids bury their heads in video games, some experts say it might be best to join them.

Brynn Davis, 7, wanted to teach his mom how to game so they could play together.

"So, she can play a game with me, and we could have lots of fun," Brynn said.

Consumer Reports says it might be better to sit down with children to play rather than trying to pull the plug.

"Maybe sit down and play with them like you play a board game or play catch outside," electronics editor Bree Fowler said.

Fowler said some parents get hung up on whether a game is educational. But many games can be used to teach valuable lessons.

"Specially, the role-playing games are all about problem solving and about making decisions," Fowler said.

There's proof to back up Fowler's claims.

Researches at Arizona State University's Center for Games and Impact say well-crafted games foster critical skills to navigate the world.

Alayna Davis, a mom of four, says the games her kids play are interactive and allow them to play with each other or play with their friends remotely. She said the games still help her kids form bonds with others.

"You're still reaching out and forming relationships through those games as well," Alayna Davis said.

With a new baby, she doesn't get to play along much, but she does keep a close eye, asking questions along the way.

"It sparks the conversation that can lead into more, you know, just communication with your kids," she said.

Fowler said those questions can give kids a sense of respect and can foster conversation.

"You can ask question about why does the character go there, why is it important to pick up these power ups," Fowler said. "Kids love to explain, they love to teach and they love to feel like you respect them as an intelligent person."

According to Consumer Reports, parents who play video games with their kids should still monitor the amount of screen time their kids are getting and make sure games are age appropriate.

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