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Detective: Teen's alleged killer seemed cold, indifferent

Posted September 22, 2010
Updated September 23, 2010

— After eight days of testimony and 23 witnesses, the state rested its case Wednesday against a man accused of conspiring to kill and then murdering an Apex teenager nearly two years ago.

Ryan Patrick Hare, 19, is charged with first-degree murder in the Nov. 30, 2008, death of Matthew Josiah Silliman.

Prosecutors have contended that Hare was jealous of the 18-year-old because of the close relationship he had with Hare's girlfriend, who is also charged in the case.

Hare's defense attorney, Robert Padovano, however, has said Silliman, who had a history of depression and bipolar disorder, wanted to die and was at a point where he no longer was "willing to battle his demons."

His client's role in the case was one of assisted suicide, not murder, Padovano said during opening statements last week.

Padovano said Wednesday afternoon, however, that he will not present any evidence in the case.

Closing arguments are expected Thursday morning.

Jurors spent part of Wednesday morning watching a nearly two-hour interrogation of Hare shortly after he was detained on Dec. 3, 2008.

At times, he laughed during Wake County sheriff's investigator Robert Campen's questioning about his relationship with Silliman.

"I didn't really trust him," Hare said in the video, when Campen asked if he had issues with Silliman. "He kissed my girlfriend."

Campen said Hare seemed cold and indifferent during the interview and that his response upon hearing of Silliman's death wasn't typical of that of a friend or an acquaintance.

Ryan Hare State rests in Apex teen's murder case

"I probably did a lot more talking than I needed to, but I was trying to get him to open up. I found his responses calculated, indifferent," Campen said.

Prosecutors have characterized Hare as the mastermind behind an elaborate scheme to lure Silliman to an abandoned trailer in New Hill, where Silliman thought he was hiding from a fictitious man named Roger who was out to kill him.

Authorities found Silliman's body on Dec. 2, 2008, after one of Hare's co-defendants, Drew Shaw, told his grandmother about the crime and she alerted police.

Shaw and Hare's girlfriend at the time of the crime, Allegra Dahlquist, testified that Hare had tried once before to kill Silliman and that, when the attempt failed, Hare convinced Silliman that he was trying to fake his death so that Roger would think he was dead.

The night Silliman died, they testified, Hare failed to knock him unconscious with a hammer and then gave Silliman an ultimatum to either be killed or kill himself.

Silliman chose the latter option and drank wine and took prescription drugs until he passed out, Dahlquist testified.

Hare, Dahlquist and a third co-defendant, Aadil Khan, ultimately bound Silliman's hands and feet with zip ties, placed duct tape over his mouth and a plastic bag over his head, witnesses testified.

Dahlquist said Hare tightened a zip tie around Silliman’s neck and left him in the guest bathroom of the trailer.

Dr. Ruth Winecker, chief toxicologist for the state Office of the Chief Medical Examiner, also testified Wednesday, that lab results found evidence of pain relievers, anti-depressants and anti-inflammatory drugs in Silliman's body. Although the levels of drugs were potentially lethal, it was highly unlikely they were fatal in this case, she said.

Associate Chief Medical Examiner Dr. Sam Simmons said the drugs, along with the high level of alcohol, could have contributed to Silliman's death in that they would have lessened his ability to respond, but that he ultimately died of asphyxiation.

If convicted of first-degree murder, Hare would be sentenced to life in prison without parole.

Khan, 19, and Shaw, 18, are still awaiting trial on the same charge.

Last month, Dahlquist, 19, accepted a plea deal from the state in exchange for her testimony. She is expected to be sentenced once the trial is over.

Khan had also pleaded guilty to lesser charges in the case in exchange for his testimony, but prosecutors filed a motion last week to withdraw the deal, saying he was uncooperative.


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  • stephalford Sep 23, 2010

    Finally deliberation... please find he guilty of 1st degree. again wonder how long they will....

  • 6079 SMITH W Sep 23, 2010

    If you think this generation is cold and indifferent, get a load of what the next one will be like. Every increase in "specialness" leads to even more savage and selfish behavior.....stuff that would have been unimaginable only twenty years ago is now happening almost daily. Toddlerhood is great for three-year-olds, twentysomethings, not so much.

  • Me-N-Nc Sep 23, 2010

    This will not bring Matt back to his family, they will still cry on his birthdays, holidays, and just anytime they see something that will remind them of him. We can only pray that whatever happens here and in the other cases gives them some sort of closer to the murder and helps them move forward with the memories they created with Matt and not the way he left life.

  • diver Sep 23, 2010

    Hare is going to get a chance to be someones girlfriend now!!! Choose wisely dude.

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  • yabo2k3 Sep 23, 2010

    Not present evidence?!?!?! No kidding!!! You have no evidence to present. The saddest part of this whole thing is that he will get "life without parole". However, thanks to our useless justice and penal system, he will be out in 10 years.

  • AlwaysAmazed Sep 23, 2010

    Who in their right mind would let this guy off on assisted suicide?? I don't foresee people lining up to get this attorney to represent them anytime soon.

  • Deb1003 Sep 23, 2010

    It's no wonder the defense doesn't have any witnesses to support his "assisted suicide" plea. Two of the three involved testified against him and indicated he masterminded the plan. A third, Aadil Khan, is keeping his mouth shut because he'll go on trial next. The fourth, Matt Silliman, is the victim. After watching the testimonies of the witnesses for the prosecution, I doubt they'll be deliberating for any length of time.

  • shortcake53 Sep 23, 2010

    These kids are dead inside, no rehabilitation is going to bring that back. Lock them away before they can harm anyone else.

  • The Oracle Sep 22, 2010

    If Hare is found not guilty, will Dahlquist still be sentenced to second degree murder?