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Domestic violence survivors talk with teens at St. Augustine's College

Posted July 14, 2010
Updated July 15, 2010

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— Two women who nearly lost their lives to domestic violence shared their stories of survival Wednesday with a group of teenagers at St. Augustine's Upward Bound summer camp program.

Carolyn Thomas' longtime boyfriend killed her mother and shot her in the face in December 2003. After undergoing 11 reconstructive surgeries, Thomas began speaking about her ordeal, hoping to educate others about domestic violence.

“He shot my mother first, shot her in the abdomen area and then dragged me into the living room and shot me in the face at point-blank range,” Thomas told teens in the Upward Bound program, which caters to low-income high school students from Edgecombe, Halifax and Nash counties.

DeeAnna Morgan-Alexander's husband also shot her in the face and then killed himself in front of her in October 2006.

“I might look OK on the outside, but I got holes in the top of my mouth. Sometimes I can't breathe,” Morgan-Alexander told the teens.

The women's stories of survival touched two teens in the audience personally. The young men had both experienced domestic abuse.

“It had me mature a lot faster than what I needed to, and I’m thankful for that, and I am also very thankful nothing ever happened seriously,” 18-year-old Victor Lopez said.

“Anything that has happened in my life happened for a reason, and for me to know that will help me become a better person in life, and that's the path that I want to choose,” 18-year-old Jaron Fields said.

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Thomas and Morgan-Alexander said they hope their stories will influence a new generation to choose healthy relationships.

“This is the reason why I survived that,” Morgan-Alexander said.

“There’s hope and there's life after the abuse,” Thomas said.

After surviving her ordeal, Thomas founded Voices 4 All, a foundation that helps domestic violence victims. Morgan-Alexander is pursuing a degree in child psychology.

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  • williamsf1 Jul 16, 2010

    I am happy that some people do go to different schools to talk about domestic violence.There are many young ladies and possibly men that goes through domestic violence.

  • Lickad Jul 15, 2010

    I agree too, most of these seminars turn into male-bashing festivals when just today another woman on male domestic violence incident occurred where a woman ran some poor guy over.

  • Pseudonym Jul 15, 2010

    Mugu,

    I 100% agree. These stories always make it sound like men have cornered the market on evil. The truth is evil knows no gender.

  • Mugu Jul 15, 2010

    They should have had a male domestic violence survivor in the mix, this is a problem for men and women.

  • cold hands warm heart Jul 15, 2010

    God Bless these woman! Some people don't understand why some women can't break away from their abusers. I volunteered at a women's shelter years ago and have seen first hand why and hope they can get some counseling.

  • debnamdavis Jul 15, 2010

    Wow, Upward Bound is a wonderful program. it is great they had these speakers to come and speak because there are so many teens that are being abused and think its "love" or they wont be able to get anyone else. As I was always taught...love dont love nobody. Big ups to Upward Bound!!