Carthage community seeks answers amid grief
Posted March 30, 2009
Updated March 31, 2009
CARTHAGE, N.C. — Bobby Dunn went every week after church to visit his mother at the Pinelake Health and Rehab Center in Carthage.
He knew that, at age 89, her days were numbered. But he never expected her to die the way she did.
Lillian Dunn was one of seven patients at the nursing home to fall victim to a gunman's rage Sunday morning. She was sitting in her wheelchair when, police say, Robert Kenneth Stewart, 45, shot her to death.
"You expect them to go, because of their age, but you don't expect them to go like that," Dunn said. "It's kind of hard."
Initially, Lillian Dunn was upset about being in a nursing home, but she recently came to enjoy the company of new friends there. Bobby Dunn still doesn't know what to think, and he's still trying to make sense of what happened.
"Mama had a good life, but she didn't deserve this," he said. "She couldn't even get up. She couldn't even wheel herself anywhere."
Investigators with the Carthage Police Department and the State Bureau of Investigation spent much of Sunday and Monday collecting evidence to find out just what exactly happened. (Read more about the investigation.)
They're reluctant to release too many details about the case, so as not to compromise the integrity of their investigation.
What is public knowledge is that a man, allegedly Stewart, walked into Pinelake around 10 a.m. Sunday with multiple weapons and began shooting. About 18 minutes later, officer Justin Garner, wounded himself, stopped Stewart with a single gunshot to the chest.
Stewart's charged with eight counts of first-degree murder and one count of felony assault on a law enforcement officer. He's being held in the medical ward at Central Prison in Raleigh.
There are more questions than answers. And there are more tears than questions.Holly Foster said she doesn’t think she can cry anymore.
"I did all of that last night," she said. "I'm sure I will many, many, many more times, but for right now, I'm just pretty much numb."
Her father, Jesse Musser, 88, suffered from Alzheimer's and Parkinson's disease. He loved to walk the halls of Pinelake. His wife is also a patient at Pinelake; she was in another part of the nursing home and was unharmed.
"Daddy was a very quiet person," Foster said.
Louise De Kler, who turned 98 on March 6, was recovering "very nicely" from a stroke last month, her daughter-in-law Gay De Kler said in an e-mail to WRAL News.
"She was the best mother-in-law anyone could want to have for the last 47 years," De Kler, of Lake Ariel, Pa., said. "She is one of 12 siblings, and she took care of all of them until their deaths, as well."
Tessie Garner, 75; Bessie Hedrick, 78; John Goldston, 78; Margaret Johnson, 89 – also patient-victims whose stories remain to be told.
And then, there's Jerry Avant Jr., 39, a former member of the U.S. Coast Guard whose tenderness and love for the elderly inspired him to become a nurse and give back to those who gave so much in their lives.
He was doing what he loved when he died.
Jill DeGarmo met him in Christmas 2003. They planned to be married this August.
"I know he didn't want to die," she told CBS News' "The Early Show" Monday morning. "And his biggest concern was praying. He wanted me to pray with him, and he wanted – even if this was going to be it for him – he wanted to get his last moments in with God."
The pain is raw; the shock, overwhelming; and the emotion, too much to overcome.
For the small, close-knit town of Carthage – population about 2,100 – nearly everyone has been affected in some way, and so many are struggling with the question: "Why?"
"It's a hard question. It's going to take some time," said the Rev. Tom Herndon, minister at the First Baptist Church of Carthage. "It takes some time to prepare for natural disasters – we're usually given days or a few hours. But something like this – we were given no time. It was instantaneous and there was no way to prepare for this."
But Herndon and other local ministers say that, with time, the community can get through the tragedy and return to some sort of normalcy.
But they will never forget it.