Despite Support from System, Woman Shot in Domestic Dispute

After shooting her, he shot killed himself.

The system designed to protect domestic violence victims is certainly notperfect, but detectives say it's hard to blame the system in this case.The victim did seek help and got it, but like some others, she may haveunderestimated the potential danger.

It was about 6 a.m. when shots rang out in the parking lot ofPurolator Products in Cumberland County. Two plant workers died in anapparent murder and suicide. Investigators say Thomas Byrd shot hisex-girlfriend Jean Hedges, then turned the gun on himself.

Until about three weeks ago, the two had lived together in a home onWindmill Drive. Neighbor Sharee Strickland says she had seen police at thehome before.

Police were last called there on November 13th. Byrd was charged withassault on a female at that time. Previously, he had faced similarcharges, but was never convicted.

In November,, Hedges received two court orders intended to keep himaway from Hedges. She checked into a shelter, but left last week againstthe advice of counselors. Crystal Black directs Fayetteville's CAREdomestic violence program. She says Hedges thought the court orders wouldprotect her.

Black says victims need to watch out for abusers who just won't let go.

Victims should beware of an abuser who's giving others the impressionthat an ended relationship is not over. In some cases, an abuser will evensay if he can't have you, than no one can.Protecting oneself from someone like that may mean making some biglifestyle changes, but that could mean the difference between life anddeath.

Editor's Note:The statistics on domestic violence are grim. Every 15 seconds in thiscountry a woman is beaten. According to the US Department of Justice, awoman between the ages of 15 and 44 is more likely to be hurt in adomestic violence dispute than in any other situation. Of all women whoare sent to the emergency room, 22 to 35 percent are treated for ongoingpartner abuse.

Photographer:Rick Allen