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Published: 2007-03-19 07:55:00
Updated: 2009-01-10 20:50:52

Mother speaks about son's death in drunken driving wreck


Rosemarie Newman, Sadiki Young's mother
Rosemarie Newman, Sadiki Young's mother
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North Carolina First Lady Mary Easley and the mother of a student killed in an alcohol-related crash on Monday kicked off a statewide campaign to decrease underage drinking.

Operation Drive to Live is designed to raise awareness among teens of the dangers of drinking and driving. The first assembly was held at Wakefield High School, where five students have died in alcohol-related crashes in the past year.

Senior Sadiki Young died in January after the car in which he was riding in went off Wakefield Plantation Drive and tumbled down an embankment.

Young's mother, Rosemarie Newman, got the attention of an auditorium of bored Wakefield High seniors Monday by speaking of her son's death.

"He is now in God's hands. I'll never touch him again with (my) hands. I want to. I can't," Newman said."Was it worth it? What was he thinking?"

Six teenagers and one adult face charges in the accident. Christopher John Palmeri, 18, of High Holly Lane, is charged with manslaughter and drunken driving. Other teens are charged with using fake identification to purchase alcohol and trying to cover-up an underage drinking party after the wreck.

"Do I think alcohol caused my son's death? Do I think alcohol influenced the way these kids behaved afterwards? Damn right I do," Newman said.

After listening to Newman in silence, many students wiped away tears and said they were moved by her presence and her words.

"Everything she said has so much weight because she's going through this and there's so much pain," student Sarah Hilla said.

"It kind of made me think. If I was to have made a bad decision and something had happened to me and to think about my mom being put in that position, it really touched me," student Breanna Freeman said.

Easley and state Highway Patrol troopers delivered a strong message about what alcohol does to students' minds and bodies. The campaign also includes troopers conducting driver safety education classes and enforcing traffic laws at high school campuses across the state.

"There has been so much pain and loss here at Wakefield," Easley said. "It's everybody's business. The solution is everybody's responsibility."


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Maybe if schools would put information on the EOG testing that kids have to take, then the kids would learn not to drink and drive. As a parent, I would make sure the kids knew not to drink and drive and they would be well educated to this matter.

Umhmm.. this shows that not only hispanics drink and drive... and i'm not seeing any racial comments about this one! Or is it because no one knows what race the last name Palmeiri is???............... yeah. thought so~

Futbalfantic, you say: "As a parent you can easyly controll what your kids do. Don't give me the crap that kids will be kids. TAKE YOUR car back, take YOUR cell phone back. 90% of the problem with kids today is EVERYTHING is handed to them."

Maybe that used to be, but today they just get trak phones. Right after my wife's half-sister was placed with us by her parents because she was drinking she tried to open a CPS case against us. When that failed, she got lawyers to try and emancipate herself. Some kids will not take no, and work the system that will believe anything they say.

My wife and I recently became the guardians of her 16 y/o half sister. She had developed a pattern of a drinking that was very reckless. Her friends' parents often supplied the drinks and once she left a girl passed out to possible die. She was arrested. When placed with us to get her out of that environment, she got an attorney and is trying to emancipate herself. We contacted the lawyer and provided her with information about the pattern of drinking back to 15, mostly chats her parents found after she was arrested and they had reason to look. Our hope was to show that hse shouldn't be emancipated because she would just run right back to that county and drink. The lawyer sat in out home and accused us of "thinking she's a bad person" and "not liking her." Everyone is so upset about the intrusion into her privacy.

As a teenager and someone who just graduated high school I must say most of everyones views here are squed (sp?). I personaly put 100% of the blame on the childs parents. As a parent you can easyly controll what your kids do. Don't give me the crap that kids will be kids. TAKE YOUR car back, take YOUR cell phone back. 90% of the problem with kids today is EVERYTHING is handed to them. At 16 75% of my friends got BRAND NEW cars and/or 50% got sports cars. A 16 year old has no business to have eather one of these cars and especially a brand new sports car. At my high school there were ~600 students who drove out of those drivers there were atleast 100 major tickets and major accidents. Out of these ALL but a few kept there cars or got a car of the same value. So tell me what lessons were learned? Also PAY ATTENTION to your kids they will tell you what they are doing you just need to pay attention.

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