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Looking for sensory-friendly holiday fun in Raleigh, Triangle? Here are 6 events, venues to consider

From special hours to visit Santa to new resources at every game and show at the PNC Arena, there are a lot more options for families with kids with special needs.

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Sarah Lindenfeld Hall

As I've been updating Go Ask Mom's annual posts on Christmas events, I've been thrilled to see more activities designed for those with sensory challenges and other special needs. From special hours to visit Santa to new resources at every game and show at the PNC Arena, there are a lot more options for families with kids with special needs.

"There are definitely more things happening that are phrased as sensory friendly, not only in the Triangle area, but across the state," said David Laxton, communications director for the Autism Society of North Carolina. What's more, the events often include staff and volunteers, who have been trained to recognized issues and concerns for those with special needs, and are filled with parents and others who understand the challenges they face.

"That is a good thing and that's a change from what it used to be in the past," he said. "Parents aren't just on their own when they are going to these performances. That makes all the difference in the world."

​Still, Laxton said, parents do need to be mindful of exactly how much their kids can tolerate. "Sensory friendly doesn't necessarily means it's completely friendly to that child," he said. "Parents know their children best. ... Even a sensory friendly visit with Santa at a scheduled time could still go wrong."

Creating social narratives can help children on the autism spectrum handle big events or special occasions by detailing the timeline of events. The Autism Society has guidance on its website.

"Kids with autism have challenges sometimes with processing information and understanding sequences," Laxton said. "The unpredictability of life and not understanding what's happening next can create anxiety and behavioral challenges for them. The more predictable you can make life, the less challenges you have with behavior and you can help them decrease their anxiety."

If you're looking for sensory-friendly holiday events, here are six venues and events to consider:

PNC Arena's new sensory inclusive initiative includes new resources and accommodations at all games, shows and events at the Raleigh arena, including next month's Disney on Ice, for those with sensory challenges. Offerings include sensory bags, weighted lap pads, photosensitivity glasses and a quiet area that is available to guests upon request.
Crabtree Valley Mall in Raleigh will host a "Sensitive Santa" time from 9 a.m. to noon, Nov. 19, that's designed for kids with sensory sensitivities. And, from 9 a.m. to 11 a.m., Nov. 28, the mall will host a Signing Santa for kids who are hearing impaired. Kids will be able to communicate with Santa directly via sign language that day.
Triangle Town Center in Raleigh will host a Santa Cares Night, which is provided by Autism Speaks. Extra care has been taken to support the sensory, physical and other developmental needs of children so they can enjoy a visit and photo with Santa. It takes place from 6 p.m. to 9 p.m., Dec. 3. Participants are asked to pre-register for this one, which you can do through the mall's website.
In Raleigh, Theatre in the Park's "A Charlie Brown Christmas" includes a sensory-friendly performance at 11 a.m., Dec. 9. The light and sound levels will be adjusted to avoid loud noises and flashing lights. A quiet area will be available for breaks. And actors will go through some specialized training. This is the first sensory friendly performance for the theater.
Marbles Kids Museum in Raleigh will offer a Lights Up, Sound Down showing of The Polar Express at 10 a.m., Nov,. 25, at the Marbles IMAX. Admission will be $7 per person. The movie will be with the lights up, the sound down and in 2D.
And the Autism Society will host its annual holiday party at its Camp Royall in Moncure from noon to 5 p.m., Dec. 16. The party includes sensory-friendly visits with Santa, holiday snacks, treats and more. Families also can spend the night in one of the camp's cabins. Registration is open.

I'll add that the Museum of Life and Science in Durham also offered two sensory-friendly rides on its Santa Train, but those two events quickly sold out. The Durham museum hopes to add more departure times next year.

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