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Lynda Loveland: Big sis steppin' up

Posted June 22, 2011

Lynda Loveland

My oldest child, nearly eight-year-old Campbell, has officially earned the title of “big sister."

I’ve seen glimpses in the past, like the time we were at Monkey Joe’s. She jumped a bigger boy in one of the blow-ups who was fighting with my then five-year-old son. It was something to see, my skinny, 45-pound daughter jump on and take down an older, heavier boy. An older girl had to pull her off. She’s not afraid of boys at all. Insert smiley face here.

Well, the other day, she convinced me she’s ready for her role as first born.

We were talking about haircuts at the dinner table. My son has this beautiful blond hair in sort of a long surfer boy haircut. Can’t bring myself to cut it. I think he kinda likes it too, but he made the comment that the boys at school said he looks like a girl. Campbell, without hesitating, said “that makes you unique!” “You’re an individual and you don’t have to look like everyone else! I think it’s handsome!”

I talk for a living, but at that moment, I was speechless! I was soooo proud of her!

About an hour later, my four-year-old, was having trouble learning the alphabet, it’s that l-m-n-o-p thing. She was in tears. Next thing I know, Campbell gets her a note card and writes out all the letters for her.

Does my heart good. I’ll try to remember those little exchanges the next time she makes bodily function noises in public.

Lynda is the mom of three and co-host of Mix 101.5 WRAL-FM's Bill & Lynda in the Morning. Find her here on Thursdays.


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  • lyndiaboswell3 Jun 25, 2011

    Cherish the momemts....they go by so fast!

  • katizs Jun 24, 2011

    Love the story - I agree there is nothing sweeter than when I see my older ones filling that role as the older sibling by helping their youngest sister (my kids are 12, 10, & 5)

  • j-lo93 Jun 24, 2011

    absolutely love your stories...reminds me of my 3 :))

  • VT1994Hokie Jun 23, 2011

    Great story and sounds like a great family working together. Kinda funny too.

  • lynne1931 Jun 23, 2011

    Love It! :)

  • thinkb4speak Jun 23, 2011

    It's sibling chemistry....they can annoy each other, beat up on each other, tattle on each other, and just generally act like arch enemys. BUT - don't let anyone else behave that way or they turn into protective mama cats! My 5th grade girl had a boy bothering her all year. At the graduation ceremony a couple weeks ago, my 9th grade daughter was really upset because the boy was not in attendance. She was mad because she couldn't have an "encounter" with him. I always tell my girls when they are fighting that they need to be careful because a sister will have your back when EVERYONE else turns on you!