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Lynda Loveland: Mouse ears for five!

Published: 2012-02-29 20:45:00
Updated: 2012-02-29 20:45:00

It’s a trip we’ve been planning for years. OK, putting off for years. I’m talking about the kids first trip to Disney World.

For one thing, we wanted to wait until the kids were old enough to fully enjoy and remember the trip. But another thing, we were dreading spending all that dough. Oh, and then there is that whole road trip thing. We’ve never been with the kids in the car for more than four hours.

I don’t mean to start this off sounding negative, but I think since I’ve never been to Disney and have absolutely no knowledge of it, I was scared of planning it. I kept putting it off. All my friends kept telling me you gotta plan it early, months in advance, especially if you’re doing a princess breakfast/lunch/dinner. You know how it is when you perceive something as a big, daunting task and you keep finding reasons to put it off. That was Mickey and me.

Well, by chance, my friend recommended a Disney planner to do the work for you. Picture a weight instantly lifted from my shoulders. After a few phone calls and emails it was a done deal. Whew!!!! Talk about a relief.

With that done, I’m really starting to look forward to the trip. Every adult, and I mean EVERY adult I talk to says I will love it. Not just the kids, but me too! Dare I say, I’m getting excited!

Of course, I still have my worries. Will we see everything, will we manage to avoid any meltdowns, will we say no (effectively)? And, of course, can we successfully keep track of three kids once they set foot in the world that is Disney. I think it will be the equivalent of giving them each a dozen pixie sticks with a Mountain Dew chaser.

Any helpful hints???

Lynda is the mom of three and co-host of Mix 101.5 WRAL-FM's Bill and Lynda in the Morning. Find her here on Thursdays.

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You will probably not see everything, as we stayed 8 days with our 4 kids and didn't see everything. We did have a GREAT time though. My best advice is to take a few hours in the afternoon to go back to the hotel and rest. We ran on pure adrenaline the first couple of days, but after that if someone even started to get cranky we knew it was time for a break. 4 kids, 8 days, no meltdowns- Disney truly is the happiest place on earth. You will love it. Go to the Rainforest Cafe at Animal Kingdom, the animals are amazing.

We used "tickets", each of which was worth $.25. Mom sees you do something nice to your brother? Add a ticket. Pick a fight? Lose one. They add up to a set amount of spending money. (We started with $25 per kid, total.)

We carried a backpack with bottled water that we had frozen the night before, and snacks (not sure if the rules have changed since 2000, though!). It saved us tons of money.

If you're staying on site, go back to the hotel for rest time every afternoon. If not, pick something like an indoor show so that everyone is sitting, chilled out for a while.

Dress the kids in day-glo colors or matching colors to make head-counts easier.

Have a family password. If a kid gets lost, the #1 rule is step off the path onto the grass and SIT. Let Mom and Dad find YOU. #2 rule is be SILENT unless someone knows the password.

Because of night activities, bedtime is going out the window. Accept that and move on...but balance it by being lazy in the morning.

Have fun!

You are going to love experiencing Disney with your kids. Probably the biggest trip we have ever taken and our kids still talk about it and wish they could go back. They were 6,9,11 at the time, now 18, 15 and 13! We too enjoyed the Rainforest cafe mentioned in an earlier post. It helped that my mother-in-law came with us. Consider taking an aunt or grandparent. Enjoy!

I am not sure how old your youngest is, but when we went last time my son was 3 and my neice was 4. I said I would never put a "leash" as I called it on my kids. Well, I sort of changed my mind. We actually bought these cute Mickey and Minnie Backpacks that were actual stuffed animals that looked like you were giving them a piggy back ride. They had a very, short tail with a handle so you could hold onto it. You could detach the tail and put it in the zipper pouch or leave it on. They were adorable and we got the most compliments on them. They were great for keeping your kids close without having to always push them around in the stroller. They were also great when standing in line. You obviously cannot depend too much on them, but they offer an alternative to always holding their hand. Cranky, tired kids at the end of the day, don't always love to hold hands, but they love Mickey Mouse:) We actually bought them at Babies R Us and the kids loved them to. They thought they wer

(cont.)They thought they were souvenirs from the trip, but they were actually just a small, piece of mind! If your kids are above the age of 4, these would obviously not be appropriate.

Lynda, I felt the same way, but we just returned and had a blast! I have two pieces of advice: first, make good use of Fastpasses to shorten your wait times. Second - and i've never heard anyone else say this - is take a case of bottled waters with you! (if you are driving). The tap water in Orlando is *awful.* You will have a great time.

Find a copy of Passporter Walt Disney World. A great planning guide. Get to the park at opening, take a break midday to swim or nap at your resort and then back to the park for the evening. Make use of Fastpasses to miss some lines on popular attractions. Have fun!

Passporters is awesome. Also I would try allears.net That is disneys unoffical guide where you will find menus and other tips. On disneyworld.com there is a mom's panel also. Parents can go there and ask questions they might have

We've been twice so far with our kids - with extended family and cousins - so we had kids ranging in age from a few months up to 6. There was something for everyone - even the 9 month old who thought the Country Bear Jamboree was the best thing ever! I agree with the suggestion of staying on property and going back and resting in the middle of the day (it's quickest if your hotel is on the monorail line or ferry). Also, we didn't try to do everything, we just went on our own pace and planned out what we wanted to do ahead of time. The book "The Complete Walt Disney World" was a GREAT resource to learn what time of day was best for certain rides and activities (e.g., do the Kilamanjaro Safari first thing in the day to see the most animals). Dinner at Cinderella's castle is a magical experience as well as the Cinderella dinner at the Grand Floridian, where the characters really get into character and the kids might get asked to dance by Cinderella or Prince Charming!

Assuming you are staying on a Disney property..Check all the "Early/Late" Magic Hours and plan around them. Get to the parks as early as possibly and hit the popular rides first. Toy Story at Hollywood Studios is best to "fastpass" early and return. Your husband can get fastpasses while you head to something else. The Bugs Life playground at Hollywood is great for younger kids.The Lion King show at Animal Kingdom is a must see - but arrive 30 minutes before show for good seats.The bird show there is excellent also. At Epcot, Get to Soarin' early and then fastpass Soarin' on the way in and ride it twice. You and kids will love this. Also at Epcot, all of the street shows are awesome! Surprisingly,they have become some of our favorites. The "Holy Grail" street play in England is too funny. At Magic Kingdom, take young kids on Go-Karts and Astro Orbiter early. Kids love them but I don't understand why :) Monsters Inc. is hilarious too. Have a great trip! Disney is truly magical!

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