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Sex Ed Ripe For Change

Change seems to be racing into N.C. schools, and we’d like to know your opinion.

Some North Carolina lawmakers and health advocates want to give parents the right to choose what type of sex education their kids get at school, WRAL reports. Right now by law, the main curriculum stresses abstinence-until-marriage, but legislation is being considered that would let parents opt for their kids to get comprehensive sex education that covers contraception. Do you think parents should have the right to choose?

After Gov. Beverly Perdue expressed her wish to increase per-student public school spending despite a budget crisis, state Republicans leaders suggested Tuesday that the size of school classes should grow instead, WRAL reports. Where should the money come from? Should class sizes increase?

A University of North Carolina panel said Tuesday that the University of North Carolina system should adopt a policy for dealing with hate crimes on all of its campuses, WRAL reports. The commission was born after North Carolina State University students spray-painted racist graffiti in the campus' Free Expression Tunnel on the night President Barack Obama was voted in. Do you think that a system-wide policy is needed?

At risk of alienating some good folks, here are my personal opinions:
Yes, on a comprehensive sex education that covers contraception. The more education for kids on contraception, the better.
No, on increased class sizes. Have you been in a public school class lately? How much bigger do think it can get?
Yes, on the UNC anti-hate crimes policy. I’m a proponent of free speech, but we need guidelines on hate speech, especially when it comes on the night that a country’s leader is elected.

Let me know what you think, especially if you don’t agree.

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I am dubious of the effectiveness of sex education no matter what subject matter is taught. So sure, parents should have the choice to let their kids learn contraception information in public schools, but it won't make any difference. It's not like contraception is rocket science.

I don't know about increased class sizes but I think it is incredibly selfish of Perdue, a career educator prior to her foray in politics, to propose increases in education spending in a time when other government functions are cutting back. Especially given the fact that far and away the largest portion of the state budget is already for education.

You obviously are against free speech, unless these "guidelines" are like the pirate code. The UNC system has the right to police its own free expression tunnel but they should change the name to "Expression Tunnel" if they don't like what people write there.

#1 NO to any of it. Sex Ed should not be taught in schools to begin with.

#2 NO The class sizes are too big to begin with.

#3 NO It's named the FREE Expression Tunnel, what part of that is not understood? If there are certain things that can't be said, then it should be re-named the Politically Correct Expression Tunnel, or the "Make Sure You Don't Offend Anyone Tunnel.

I'm not sure why only abstinence is taught in our schools anyway, other than the fact that some people are too afraid to face the facts. The best place for sex-ed to take place is in the home, but realistically, too many people are too uncomfortable or misinformed to teach their kids about sex. Where only abstinence is taught and purity pledges are made, it typically delays the onset of sexual activity, not until marriage however. And, when these kids do engage in sexual activity, they are extremely less likely to use contraception. In other words, most kids are going to have sex...so we might as well teach them how to protect themselves from STI's and pregnancy.

Sex ed in schools is better than sex ed in the back seat of a lowrider, or at the lake or park, or getting it from MTV and internet porn.

In a perfect world, kids wouldn't HAVE to learn sex ed in schools, and their parents would tell them everything they needed to know to stay safe and pregnancy-free. But guess what? Many parents will never talk to their kids about sex, so for the most part teenagers (especially young teenagers, 9th-10th grades) piece it together from media culture, listening to their friends, and watching their parents' examples (not always great examples). Sex ed in schools is a solid way to reinforce the good messages and drown out the bad.

We need to have a comprehensive sex-ed policy in the schools. The abstinence only policy has not worked (as shown in studies), we need to provide a full education to the students.

My comments:

1) We're legally required to pay the schools and to send 'em our kids (or pay more money to educate 'em otherwise)

2) Schools' job is to teach academic skills: "reading, writing, arithmetic." Have they mastered teaching those, yet?

3) It is the job of the students' parents, with help from their close older associates, to be responsible for the students and to accurately teach their expected social norms (including sexual) and the reasons/ramifications.

4) Many teachers have difficulty avoiding sexual actions with their students and are limited even within their field of expertise.

5) There is no accreditation body (that I'm aware of) that'd ensure the quality/accuracy of the sex info. conveyed (e.g., tough ones like: impact of antibiotics on "the pill," proper storage of condoms, the limits of various STD/pregnancy preventive measures, etc.).

In-school comprehensive or abstinence-only sex ed.? How 'bout neither? It is NOT their job!

"In-school comprehensive or abstinence-only sex ed.? How 'bout neither? It is NOT their job!"

Their JOB is to educate. And since many parents refuse to discuss the subject at home, and some even give out false information, kids need a place to get accurate information.

There is much more to education than "reading, writing, arithmetic", they also need skills and knowledge for their life.

I personally think a few things the parents should be able to teach to their kids. This is one of them. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to teach kids these kinds of life lessons and parents need to be parents and not the school system. This is something that will probably never be agreed on because this is a moral and religious decision. I personally believe abstience is the only choice but I also believe I am capable of teaching my kids this and I don't need a school to tell them. No matter how right it may seem to teach protection it will never protect our kids from the emotional scars they are going to cause themselves by not waiting till marriage.

"There is much more to education than "reading, writing, arithmetic", they also need skills and knowledge for their life."

If the schools are going to teach contraception to help students prone to irresponsible sexual behavior then they should teach "game" to the shy students so they can get laid.

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