Elizabeth GardnerElizabeth Gardner's Babyology Blog
WRAL Meteorologist Elizabeth Gardner and her husband, Tripp, welcomed baby girl Elizabeth Reese into the world in October. Read Elizabeth's "Babyology" blog about being a new mommy.

I'm Back

After Reese turned a year old I stopped writing this blog.   I figured it's a baby blog and she's not a baby anymore.   But a lot of folks asked me to keep writing and I plan to write about a mix of topics from a parent's point of view.     Today I feel compelled to write about being nice.    I think most parents strive to teach their children to be nice.   I take Reese to our neighborhood park several times a week and I see parents working hard to teach their children to share,  not push, and generally be nice to each other.     Listening to the news for 5 hours each day proves that lesson doesn't always stick.    There are so many stories about people hurting other people.   As a parent it's a very scary thing.    One place I experience people not being nice is on the road.   Yesterday I was traveling on a 3 lane section of road downtown.  I was in the far left lane and a person turned left from the center lane right in front of me.   I had to slam on brakes and if I had been changing the radio station I would have hit the other car.    Fortunately Reese was not with me.   So many drivers are inconsiderate and unsafe that it worries me to drive with Reese in the car.     I guess it's part of my job as a mother to worry but I'd love to see people try to be a little nicer to each other.      I read a quote from David Letterman a long time ago.   The interviewer asked him what it was like to be so famous.  He said that everyone was really nice to him,  waiters, cashiers, etc.  He said he wished that people would act that way toward each other all the time....not just when meeting a celebrity.    I know it sounds hokey but next time you feel like being rude, selfish or inconsiderate try being nice instead.  It will actually make you feel good and it's a lot more fun.  Plus...that other person is somebody's child and you'd want them to be nice to yours! 

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Just want you to know - I need to see you EVERY work day before DRESSING for work! Thanks for all your weather information.

I totally know how you feel. When I was younger, I used to speed around in my firebird while laughing , talking, and jamming to tunes on my blaring radio. Yeasterday, after picking up my 3 young children from daycare, I was driving in front of a teenager who was driving just like I used to. I was terrified! I kept thinking, "please don't hit me, please pay attention!" Everything I do now revolves around my babies and their safety, and I get so mad that people don't realize when they are endangering the lives of others. I suppose now I really am old........

Elizabeth...I couldn't agree more. I have always been a big believer in "paying it forward" As a single Mom I have tried to instill in him the trait's of a good person....He's 20 now and trust me when I say he's no saint but I will have to say it does my heart good when I hear someone say "Your son is so thoughtful and sweet, you brought him up right" It makes me feel that I have done something right!

Good to hear from Elizabeth. Your smiling face is always a welcome sight in our living room every weekday morning. Hope Reese is doing well and you can share a picture soon. :)

Hello Elizabeth i am glad to hear from you again. I have a 17mth old garndson that is learning to talk and interact with other. he is a sweet little thing and teaching him to be nice is a job not only for the grand parents but for the parents as well. If one set tries to make him mind and the other ones don't we have a problem. I have tried to tell my daughter that we have to work together to reach the same gold. That is respect for all. I hope you keep up the good work and thanks for being a great weather woman.

I enjoy your reports each morning! I am glad you are back!! You are so right about what you teach your kids. I am the grandmother of 3 under 3, and having raised to of my own, there are meltdown moments--many of them--but the kids learn from what their parents show them. If all parents would start by being nice to each other and their children, we would have such a much better world. R-E-S-P-E-C-T----that is the big deal--Respect others space, opinions (even if you don't agree), things. Please keep on blogging. You are in a position to reach many parents--including working ones that can understand what you and Lynda and the other working moms there go through.

First of all Elizabeth, thank you for your morning weather reports! That "don't forget to take a jacket" advice has kept me warm waiting for the car to get warm in the morning!!

I am a proud father of Leilani (pronounced "Lay-lon-ee")a soon to be 6 year old (she turns 6 on Sept. 14...she was born 3 days after 9/11..and she was featured on WRAL before we left Rex!), and I can tell you straight up, teaching your kids to be nice and behave early on in life pays off as they start to grow up. Although there are those "meltdown moments"; Leilani is a happier, more helpful child than if we would have just let her go wild. The other benefit is that if your child is nice, they have an influence on other kids to be the same way.

AMEN! I couldn't agree with you more!

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