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Julia Sims: The thing about cousins

Posted August 22, 2016
Updated August 23, 2016

Julia Sims with son Will

My son is blessed with something I never had growing up: A gaggle of cousins. He's got 11 in all. Five of them (all boys) are pretty much the same age.

Since Will is an only child, we try to make sure he gets together with his cousins as much as possible. And boy, when they do, it's a sea of smiles and a chorus of laughs. He loves each and every one of them ... and they love him right back. To me, cousins are the perfect blend of siblings and best friends.

Here's the thing about cousins: They're always excited to see you. They welcome you with open arms, they don't slam the bedroom door in your face yelling, "Mom, tell him to leave me alone!"

They don't borrow your clothes without asking, they willingly lend you something like it's a secret pact between friends. They don't tattle on you when you do something wrong, they're likely in on the mischief with you. They always have your back.

There is something incredibly special about cousins. I love seeing how my son and his cousins just fall into lock step with one another when they're together. For one of Will's school assignments, he had to bring in a picture that meant something special to him. You guessed it: He took in a picture of his cousins.

Julia Sims is the mom of one and a reporter for WRAL-TV.

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  • Amomoftwo Aug 24, 2016

    I love this story! My children recently celebrated a "cousins vacation" with their group of 10 cousins.....they ranged in age from 16-32 years old! What a great time they had together with their new spouses and one second generation cousin attending! I wish the same for your son and his cousins.