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name: elaine

golo url: ilovelife.golo.com

born: 1951

gender: female

city: fuquay-varina, nc

golo member since: March 1, 2009

about ode2joy

I enjoy life and the beauty that exists around me.  One reason I love photography is I may help make someone else open their eyes to the wonder that exists everywhere.  Another reason is: my father loved photography and this is something I inherited from him. I like to think he would be proud of me. I have been married 35 years and have a 25 year old son.  I am a nurse and love people.


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favorite music: james taylor,jimmy buffet,peggy lee,rockapella,heart

favorite movies: memoirs of a geisha,the tenth warrior

favorite hobbies: photography, scrabble, meeting people, enjoying life

favorite tv shows: the mentalist,the big bang theory,

favorite restaurants: an,kios, the braut house, chillis,mongolian grill,





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Mom's been sleeping now for 7 years, and Dad for 15. I miss them both as much now and then. My Mom also had a sister, and they were the sweetest two ladies....

Hi Elaine -

Blessed to hear you're doing well. Just give it time sis...as much time as you need, and rest in our arms as we here at GOLO pray for you and love you.

How is your son doing???

Doing ok here. Have terrible eye allergies that have, I think, led to eye infections. Did all the meds per instructions, to no avail, so turned to tea bags which seems to be helping more than anything else has. Hard to type though, cause I can't see with all the drip drip from my eyes, especially the right one.

Have a wonderful weekend dear, and take care of YOU.

With love.

God bless.

RB

Unfortunately I haven't been dancing much lately - I'm still regaining strength and flexibility following knee surgery a couple of years ago. Like you, though, I have tons of ME music and videos (including a few from some lessons I took a while back!), so I hope to get back into it again - of course, it helps that my aunt happens to be one of the premier instructors in the Triad area. ;-) Hope you are doing well - I've really enjoyed reading your blogs. Sounds like Hank was quite a man, and you two had a wonderful relationship and were a lovely team. Hugs, tammy

Oh yeah, and to answer your question, I've used both zils and veil, although it's been so long since I last took a lesson/danced, I suspect the elastic on my zils is probably dry-rotted by now. lol

I feel more relaxed and ready to get back to restructuring my life."

Elaine, Henry's pics from childhood were so sweet and lovable. I know that learning to live without your beloved companion will be very hard. I will keep you in my prayers.

I have a mindset about my parents that I know is real. It's the fact that the Bible is loaded with talk about "only the body dies, and we will receive a new body". The Spirit - the things our eyes cannot see - will live forever.

I do not know whether or not your husband can look down at this world and see what you are doing. But i do know that he is alive in Spirit, just like he was before he disappeared. And in his new life, he has awareness of his surroundings. Being with Jesus has to be unimaginable for you and me, for we haven't seen the greatness that awaits us.

There may be calendars on the walls of God's house HE has prepared for us. But I don't think there will be clocks. Time will be unlimited forever.

Elaine,

Your welcome. I have seen this type situation with my sister and the advice I gave you is sound for her also.

Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.

God Bless!

Good morning Elaine! Been thinking about what you're going through.... {{{HUGS}}}

I must say that He is helping you through this...silently in the background....just like He carried me when I lost my parents.

Hi Elaine -

Busyness has it's benefits, but so does slowing down sometimes.

Praying you will be able to slow down for a little bit soon.

With love.

God bless.

RB

Sounds like you're doing good. You're finding the blessings among the trials. AMEN!!!

Just let me know when you get hungry. ;o)

With love.

God bless.

RB

ref the San one,(I don't want her to do a search and find this comment). For starters I will blog her business address in the morning...we need to flood it will funny, weird cards. I will delete the blog as I am not sure when she is coming back this weekend. Her yard sale is Sept 12, I will find a way to get there...other plans developing, but I have made Angela aware of it. thanks for your interest...

Thanks for sharing the lovely story of Gracie. Your mistake, my gain.

Ode - thank you so much for waiting until I returned. Your son and I share a birthday, that's so cool! Have a wonderful Sunday. :)

Thanks, the kitty is cute too! Squirrel has been with me since day one on here! Bottoms up!

I thoroughly enjoyed the blogs you posted about your husband. You are a lovely lady. Here is a website you might enjoy. www.addressinthestars.com There is a song "Address in the Stars" by Will and Caitlin you need to hear. You should post about your husband on this site also. You never know when you have the power to touch someone elses life. You have touched mine and I wanted to say thanks.

{{{{{{Elaine}}}}}} I'll keep you in my payers. You had such a wonder life's companion, I know your adjustment will take time and support from your golo friends.

Hi Elaine/Ode:

Many thanks for blogging about Hank. It is a pity that I did not have a chance to meet him in "real" life, he seems like he was a dearheart, a character, a gentleman, a scholar and good man. Please keep writing the blogs. I did something similar after the passing of my grandfather and it was were cathartic ( sp?). I wish you all good things for you and your family...

Squirrel~~

Hey Ode

I just read part two about Hank. He seems like he is what is right about humanity. My thoughts and hopes are with you.

My best wishes for you and yours!!

(((((Elaine)))))

{{{Elaine}}} Can you make lunch at Cooleys, Thur. the 3rd? I will be you and I, Silverdakota, NCN and Mimi.

I sure do hope you can, I look forward to meeting you. :)

Elaine,

No words will ever comfort during this time. BUT YOU CONTINUE TO OCCUPY MY PRAYERS AND THOUGHTS.

Be blessed and remain in His care.

Elaine,

Thanks for taking the time to give me an update. We all deal with loss in a very personal way. It is comforting to know, we don't have to do it alone. Take care.

I am doing ok. I am trying to look for another job. I am happy at the women's pavillion but I need something full time and better money. I was hoping to cont to stay at Wake Med but every time I apply for something I get denied. I dont know. I guess they really dont care about people with 4 year degrees. I do have 3 years experience over here. Its about time I move up in here at work. I want to get something quick before they freeze hiring over all you know with all that is going on at work. I hope that you are doing good. I can't wait for next week. Tommy and I are going to the beach. Its going to be fun. I will talk to you tomorrow.

Thanks for the friend request, Elaine!

You'll always be my friend!!!

Truly a classy lady you are!

God bless and keep you!

Hi Elaine -

My eyes are much better, but my brother and I just went through about a week long bout with some kind of bug that has left us very sore and achy, mostly in the lower back and upper legs. Very strange!

How are you doing???

God bless.

RB

"I am not worried for him.God promised us who believe would be with him."

That's my gal talkin!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}

Hi, lady!

Glad to hear you are doing so well.

Your outlook is the most uplifting thing.

I, too, know how hard it can be when we cannot help the one they love when they hurt. Peace is a gift in itself.

Sounds like you have some wonderful friends...and if you ever need to vent, or just need a hug.....ya come see me:)

Morning Ode: Honey, I am so glad to hear from you. I know how rough loss is since I lost Momma on April 15th. It is amazing to me though: you say your hubby had some of his best days near the end. I find that to be true with so many people who have made their peace with God...and know where they are going. I am so glad you are doing well although I know some days are worse/better than others. I will continue to hold you close in thought and prayers. Just drop me a note any time you need a prayer buddy or someone to agree with you in your prayer life. ((((HUGS)))) to sweet Ode.

Hey,just wanted to come by and see how you are doing.Hope you are doing well and things going good for you.God bless you.

Hey,don't see how you do it working three twelve hour shifts.Guss there is not enough time to do any thing but sleep,eat,and work.My heart goes out to you and prayers goes out to you.I'm glad you hd some one to help you get your bills in order.My hubby does all the bills I think I need to start helpig him do this never know when I might have to do this my self one day.Wishing you all the best.You are one strong lady. (((((Hugs)))))

Glad you are doing well, Elaine. I am sometimes free for lunch. Post a note on my profile.

Susan

Sorry I missed you before you went out to mow. It was good to meet you too! If you can mow, I can go ahead and walk to the store before it gets hot. Have a great day!

I'll be going down to Bragg on Sat. to visit with him. He leaves Sunday morning at 5 am. Hoping to see him then walking down the green ramp.

How have you been doing. I think about you every time I log in to GOLO. Just hope you're adjusting. I know you're having to make changes with insurance and everything. God bless you. I really mean it. If you ever want to get together for lunch, let me know. Maybe we'll drag Sandra along. Enjoy your week end. Love ya!

Hope you have a wonderful Labor Day weekend! =) ((((hugs))))

Thanks for the kind thoughts Elaine. By the way, my niece is named Elaine. I just got to see her last week end after not seeing her for almost 40 years. It was so great.

I do think about my friends (you) when I know they are going through tough times. We live a long way apart (Fuguay & Wake Forest) but if you ever need any help with anything, it's never a long trip to a friends house. And I always have time for a friend. Have a great Holiday week end.

Your bud, Dave

Hey Elaine! I feel awful! It started this morning and progressed through the day. I actually just realized tonight that I was going to call you this morning. I am so sorry it passed me by...I went to Morgan's school to find out what time we had to go since we couldn't get anyone on the phone there, and we ended up staying. By the time I got home I already felt like death. Hopefully a good night sleep will cure all ills. :)

Elaine, Thanks for thinking of me.....

Grinder and I are on the highway again heading for Georgia.... I love the serenity of driving at night.... Less traffic....

((((((((((((hugs and lets do lunch again real soon))))))))))))))

Good morning Elaine!! Have a great Sunday,dear!!

Ode - thank you so much for telling Mizzzeta about the yard sale!!! She is such a sweet soul, I can't wait to see her again. :-)

Elaine - there is no doubt that you chose the perfect name to represent yourself. Your presence alone makes people feel more joyful. Thank you so much for your help today!!! Have a wonderful night. :-)

It was a pleasure to meet you and everyone else today. Many I expected, but meeting you there was a totally unexpected pleasure that put it over the top! {{{ Hug!!}}}

hey girlie, wanted to say it was nice to meet you on Sat, I have been enjoying your pics though, esp the goldens. They are just the sweetest dogs.

My number is 331-9019. We've been getting calls. Hmmm!!!

Breakfast, lunch or dinner, and/or ice cream sounds good. Any time. k

God bless.

RB

You are so sweet. Love the kitty pic.

Just stopping by to say good morning.Hope you are doing good.

Hey,good to hear from you and that you are enjoying your children and fixing up your home.I'm doing o.k after a brief stay over in the hospital this past weekend but doing good sure don't have any complaints lol.Hope you are having a good week it is going by so fast to me.

Thank you for the comment this morning. I have it scheduled right now for 10/9 but called yesterday to get rescheduled for 10/23. I have fall break after that for 2 days so that I won't miss so much class time. I also saw where you said you worked. My sister works there. She works the night weekend shift 2/24's.

guten morgen, thanx for scoping my pix....used a nikon coolpix....the first one.........it's like three years old and being held together with scotch tape, hehe, but it still works......

Can't really say what got me into this; like growing stuff, figured Bonsai was the next logical step........ the mini stuff on marble is called penjing, and it's very fun.....I'll be posting more pix in the future, thanx again!

Three boys are in the school yard bragging about their fathers. The first boy says, "My Dad writes all day. He scribbles a few words on a piece of paper, he calls it a POEM, they give him $50!"

The second boy says, "That's nothing. My Dad writes all day too! He scribbles a few words on a piece of paper, he calls his a SONG, they give him $100!"

The third boy says, "I got you both beat. My Dad also writes all day. He scribbles a few words on a piece of paper, he calls his writings SERMONS. He reads them in church, and it takes EIGHT MEN to collect all the money!!!"

Dont say that Con Amor did'nt make you smile today! Have a great day!

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