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golo url: mentor.golo.com

born: 1961

gender: male

golo member since: March 18, 2008

about mentor

I am a freethinker...a scientific naturalist, if you will. 

 

Freethought: a philosophical viewpoint that holds that beliefs should be formed on the basis of science and logic and not be influenced by authority, emotion, tradition, or dogma.  

 

Philosophy is questions that may never be answered...

Religion is answers that may never be questioned... 

 

 

Politically I would self-identify as a moderate, though some other golo members might still consider me a "moonbat." At times my political views tend to be more Libertarian, which is one reason I have so much admiration for Thomas Jefferson.  It seems political points of view are treated as stereotypical caricatures by many members. It's always easier to attack your own cartoonish version of the other person's views than to understand what the other person's views actually are.

 

One of my favorite pastimes is studying the philosophers of history, especially in the area of religion. I spent years mentally "at sea" on the topic, knowing my Methodist upbringing wasn't ringing true in my mind...yet not being willing to entertain the possibility that what I had believed all my life might not really be true. I came across the writings of a man named Robert G. Ingersoll, and realized I had stumbled on what I was looking for. If you have never seen or read any of his speeches, do yourself a favor and do so! You can find his work (among others) at www.infidels.org  He echoed all my unspoken sentiments about everything that was wrong with Christianity.

 

Why I Am An Agnostic  (1896)

About the Holy Bible     (1894)

 

 

I floated for a short while in the deist realm, along with the likes of (the much maligned) Thomas Paine, Benjamin Franklin and Thomas Jefferson. After more study of the theist/non-theist debate, and soaking up all the modern evolutionary biology I could get my hands on, I began to realize that the universe is explainable without a god as a first cause...in fact it was more convoluted to insert a complex un-caused being at the beginning! Ockham's razor chops away the unnecessary complexity and leaves a simple conclusion: The universe, in some form or other, has always existed. A hard concept for us to grasp, but much simpler than a creator god who was there when it started - but who had done "god only knows" before that! (pun intended)

The hardest part of letting go of God is letting go of the idea of an afterlife...we all somehow feel we should continue on forever, even after our bodies die. I came to realize that this life is all we have. This bothered me for a bit, but it makes a lot more sense than tripping off into an eternity of existence after just a quick 'blip' of a biological life. Epicurus long ago noted that death need not be feared..."If I am here, death is not! When death comes, I shall not be here." Why fear something we will never "share the room with", so to speak? Mark Twain brought his wit and common sense to the topic as well when he said, "I was dead for millions of years before I was born and it never inconvenienced me a bit!" I expect it will be the same for all of us as well. My memory of 2112 will be the same as my memories of 1812! :-) The belief that our lives are just a quick prelude to some vague eternity to come later robs us of the full appreciation for the life we have right here, right now! When we can realize that this is our one and only life, it becomes all the more special and dear to us. 

The other difficult part of letting go of religious belief is realizing that there will be no "final justice". Hitler is dead; simply dead. There is no hell for him to go to...his existence is ended except for the horrible memories of all the wrongs he perpetrated on humanity while he was alive. Horror was his legacy. Hopefully his miserable life will continue to teach us what the fruits of racial hatred and fascism really are.

You and I have our own opportunity to leave a legacy as well...hopefully a positive one! Maybe this is our shot at immortality after all - to leave behind good memories in the minds of people who knew us..to bequeath to the future all the best we could muster, seen through the eyes of our children.

But, I digress. If you want something to happen in your life, go out and make it happen! If you want justice, you will have to work for it. There is no celestial umpire that is going to call the game in your favor and fix all that was wrong with your life. Prayer is mind-talk and may help some people, but if you use your mind and your reasoning skills, one day you will realize that you're only talking to yourself.  YOU are the architect of your future! Be proud of your successes, and don't beat yourself up over your failures. Life is short, and precious....live it for what it is: a rare and special opportunity!  

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Please don't misunderstand my purpose here solely based on the amount of material I present relating to non-belief. Actually, I would characterize myself as more of a logic-based polemicist than an iconoclast. I have no agenda to "bash" religious faith per se, or to cast aspersions on anyone for whom faith and religion are important.  In my contributions I will do my best to avoid contributing to the consequences and pitfalls of a world in which the lines between fact and opinion, informed expertise and amateurish speculation are willfully blurred.

 

 

 

Fun YouTube Destinations!

MadTV Carlin sketch. 

A few notable quotes.

A few thoughts from Sam Harris.

It's not always easy to be secular in the U.S.

 

"Of all religions, the Christian should of course inspire the most tolerance, but until now Christians have been the most intolerant of all men." - Voltaire

 

"I would defend the liberty of consenting adult creationists to practice whatever intellectual perversions they like in the privacy of their own homes; but it is also necessary to protect the young and innocent. -  Arthur C. Clarke

 

The Bible is not my book, nor Christianity my profession. I could never give assent to the long, complicated statements of Christian dogma.  -  Abraham Lincoln

 

In religion and politics, people's beliefs and convictions are in almost every case gotten at second-hand, and without examination.  -  Mark Twain 

 

Fear is the mother of all gods. Nature does all things spontaneously by herself without their meddling. -  Lucretius

 

 

About the name Mentor: Years ago, when I was running a bbs, I had a user with this handle. He was an old guy who had a way of bringing just the right mix of wisdom and common sense to a discussion. He's long gone now, and I use the name mostly as a tribute to him.   

 

We now have a group for atheist/agnostic golo members! Please apply if you would like to be part of it:  

 nc-atheists.golo.com  

 

An expanded blog on these topics is under construction on Wordpress HERE. Comments and discussion are welcome! If you prefer, you may reach me directly at free.thought2@gmail.com.

 


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I went to the new Star Trek kicking, screaming and calling everyone a p'tak and looking for Romulan Ale. I sat in the cold theater saying "This is a desecration, I am going to hate this...they are frakking with canon law here".

Loved it...LOVED it.

I give it 5 Vulcan Salutes...

I really enjoy how they cut out certain excerpts, leaving out the surrounding comments. They find something that presents the image they want to project, but, if played in its entirety, will not support that position.

It is their usual methods, never changes. I wish the folks who watch would at least have the intellectual honesty to admit that instead of running around claiming "fair and balanced".

Hey Mentor,

I sent you a friend request. I am a fellow atheist and jbunny told me about a group you run called Golo Atheists and Agnostics. I would like to be a part of that group!!

yes i did thanks..

good morning, my week is shaping up, that's about all I can say. How are you?? Thanks for stoppping by and saying hello. It was so nice hearing from you

Good morning Mentor =)

I'll make it. I'm gonna go see the doctor today I hope...dang car wrecks man...

Yep I like the butter pic!! Yes I got blocked. Maybe it was for the best. I have never seen someone so self righteously proud of being ignorant before.

I finally blocked that azz ryoung since he's such a thread killer. - prom

Wow - I think I actually got a rise out of someone. I have never been a thread killer before. I have however been called an azz many times :)

Sorry mentor - every time I pizz someone off they seem to run to you about it...

I am some what dismayed about it myself and hope that my "fan club" doesn't inconveniece you too much...

I find it fascinating the amount of passion directed toward a faceless internet persona - sort of like being really ticked off at some character on a TV show.

You can get the 4th blog free! Just pay postage and processing! My tribute to ya Billy...."

Dang, you are sharp today. Well said

That was back in my early married days when we thought we were king & queen of the world if we had 100 bucks in the checking account. :-)

my point exactly! How long have you been married?

Congrats that is a long time! I thought I was married a long time... we will celebrate our 16th in August.... I guess it's a long time by todays standards =)

"Makes me think of a poor-selling Sabbath album "Heaven and Hell." When I was at NCSU (and playing DJ on WKNC) I used to play a cut called "Die Young." That was back when I couldn't find metal hard enough! :-)"

Oh how the times have changed. The metal of today is horrible. A bunch of grumbling and mumbling. A little group called Slayer could have provided that hard enough for you style back then.

My pleasure. Thanks for accepting it. When were you a DJ at KNC?

Oh, I was very popular, Mentor...... "The sportos, the motorheads, geeks, sloots, bloods, wasteoids, dweebies, d!ckheads — they all adored me"...They thought i was a righteous dudette

With apologies to Ferris Bueller, I am sure..

Nah in high school I was the nerdy girl nobody liked, who sat in the back, made A' and B's ( but since I was not "popiular" was not in the Honour Society). I sat in back, goofed off and read Douglas Adams, Asimov and Tolkien, was a total Scadian and was about as High School active as that big fluffy pile of dog squeeze over there...

What a time to be a DJ. Anything from disco, punk, metal, and new wave. Hair metal had not yet taken its grasp at that point though. The Priest was in full swing at that time though.

I stumbled upon this article using stumbled upon. It is just a cool plug in to randomly take you to different sites on the internet.

I read this article and actually had a hard time believing that whom ever wrote this was serious. This article is about AA (Alcoholics Anonymous) is the work of the devil and should be shunned. http://www.raptureready.com/soap/lanagan3.html

No clue. I really feel like this is a regular who is using different ID's just to keep the pot stirred on different levels. No idea how many different ID's, but can tell at least two.

Howdy stranger! How's it going? Hope all is well with you! Have a wonderful 4th! :-)

Beth

LOL! Thanks! I don't know how Red did it. I could NEVER stand on the slide like that. Heck, going up the steps is bad enough to me! My sense is balance is......well, let's just say if a cop made me do the toe touch - nose touch, lift your foot, thingy, I would probably NOT pass, stone cold straight! Hee hee!

:-)

Beth

Happy 4th!!! Have a safe and happy holiday weekend. :)

Hey Mentor; got to GOLO late today and read your star waws blog.

Amazing stuff; I wasnt even alive in 1977 but I feel like I was reading your blog.

Awesome stuff coming from a HUGE star wars fan!!!!

Your profile has some very interesting information in it. And just so you know, I am not one of those people who will ban/ignore/block people who don't believe the same things I do. I appreciate seeing others thoughts and beliefs. By the way, do you still live in the Wilson area?

Happy Humperz Day Mentor! Have a great week!

About your avatar: Hubba hubba!!!!

thank you, I've had migraines for as long as I can remember and hopefully we can help each other, those that have them, and provide support to friends and family of those that have them as it can be difficult on them as well. Feel free to stop by anytime. Everyone is welcome

LOL, it's all calm now. =P

Dude, Jack Van Impe is totally insane. With your sense of humor, I bet you would love his show!

I may just do a blog about it...time permitting =)

"I thought it went pretty well. Except for a couple of trigger-happy folks who like to ridicule believers out of the gate, the discussion was pretty civil. We're doing our part to dispel the stereotypes - right? :)" - Mentor

You know...I expected that to happen, but I expected it from the religious first. I was very pleased that the discussion for the most part stayed civil. I didn't see anyone who I thought might be genuinely insulted. As far as doing our part...we're dping our best...but you know...usually it's the loudest that get heard...not the majority.

“The blogosphere is my only outlet for frank discussion on these topics. I might have the guts to do it if it were just me - but I have a family to consider.” - mentor

You know, if I didn’t know better, I’d almost swear you were me at times. :)

I would love for people to know exactly who I am out here. Then I could share some of my other hobbies and interests with them, including my personal website. But for the reasons you’ve stated, I remain behind the mask.

You live in the Wilson area too? :D

You live in the Wilson area too? :D - Spunky

Pretty much! Sort of in between Wilson and Rocky Mount.

I live between Wilson and Farmville. :D

if i'm not mistaken, mr golo himself (crisp) was in radio.

lol...do what you will with that info.

Thank you very much. BTW - I love your avatar

It is absolutely scary to read their posts. It is amazing, really is. They are the poster child for LCD.

""Dark Side of the Moon" was the first album I replaced with a CD. I had a decent copy, but the quiet passages were full of pops and clicks. I guess you're too young to have owned many LP's eh? Come to think of it...this album was produced almost 4 years before you were born! *sigh* I'm an old man by comparison. ;-)"

come to think of it, i think dark side was the first cd i bought as well. i didn't have a lot of lp's, maybe 15 or so...i mostly had tapes. but, some of my friends had extensive collections....hundreds of lp's. as far dark side being released before i was born, i was definitely born too late. most of my favorite music was released before i was born. hendrix, zeppelin, floyd, beatles, etc...i would have made a perfect 50's baby....that would have made me about the right age to really enjoy the late 60's and early 70's.

it's a true pleasure to encounter such an intense intellect, tempered by a lifetime of experience. "

I agree. Thanks for your kind words, too.

/*Drive by hi*/ Hope you are doing well and having a great hump day, my friend. :-)

Beth

*/Beth gladly cuts her Xanax in half and hands Mentor one*/ Gee, if only I was so lucky! Hee hee! Remember that commercial from the 70's: Calgon. Take me away! Well, for me it's: Xanax. Take me away! Weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!

:-)

Beth

"mentor! I've been waiting for you to arrive, so you could be blocked... you can go make your snarky little attacks against me, on other people's blogs, like you've been known to do. Go ahead, I'm sure hockey's waiting for you LOL" - tmedlin

You needn't bother, really. No need for paranoia about any "snarking" on my part. I will leave you to whatever it is that you do....

The adam's apple thing doesn't help, but even without that there's just something about her...

thank you!!! I hope you have a great weekend yourself

"Hi sweets! Thanks for the invite. I have now officially begged for admittance to join your fine group or raving heathens. :)

Let me in!" - Gucci

I dunno what kind of notifications you have set up...so just in case...

Let her in!!!

Good morning btw =)

http://www.wral.com/golo/blogpost/5728436/

Elcid posted that he is doing well

"Your kid brother never worked at the Sears in Wilson did he?? :D"

Darlin', I don't think he's ever been south or west of New York City. And he definitely sounds it! But he's a card, I'll tell ya! A fast-talking, good-natured, full-of-fun card, LOL.

Don't do it, man. It won't help.

Good luck w/that. Been there, tried that. Didn't even like the t-shirt.

OMG! I thought that said Love naked, before I maximized it! LOL LOL LOL! ;-)

Beth

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