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elcid89


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about elcid89

With all of the complaining that goes on here (some of you honestly seem incapable of doing anything else BUT complaining ...), GoLo has become depressing.

With the general trend towards the banal and inane, GoLo has become a waste of my time. 

What is it about this place, which has so much promise of bringing people together to discuss ideas and learn from one another, that it brings out the worst in people instead?

You'll forgive me if I take my leave of it.





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i was sayin before your blog got removed.... dont you think thats a waste of time given she can just simple come right back!

Looks like your personal vendetta blog against FRDR got pulled for violating the TOS.

Sorry, that's just too funny to me. LOL

Poetic justice? Maybe, maybe not. But still funny as heck!

but the way you are going about it is a violation

"It served its purpose. I advised her of what I intended to advise her of. I fully intend to get her style changed or get it shut down completely. I've had enough of it."

But in the process of advising her of that, you also violated the TOS, yourself. Surely you can see the humor in that. :)

She said she did not report you. Sheesh, there are too many thin-skinned people on here. There are far too many people that run and tattle like children, IMO. Sometimes it's called for, but I suspect I wouldn't agree with many of the alleged "abuses" being reported. At some point, I wish people could just get over themselves.

Exactly how did your blog violate the TOS?

Someone posted the TOS here:

http://www.wral.com/golo/blogpost/2375793

"The disparity establishes a basis for asking "why?" ..."

A very good question, indeed.

I don't think your blog should have been taken down by the managing editor. It was civil. You politely explained that you would report any abusive posts by her. Nothing wrong with that, as far as I can tell. I think the post with the word "dike" was more offensive than your entire blog.

it violated TOS because it was personally harrassing.. you called her out and basically said you were going to follow her around watching her every move which can be deemed as stalkerish (if that is a word lol)...

look i have no idea about the whole dike comment but if it gets reported enough it would be removed but people have quicker access to your blog than her particular comments because your blog is publicized and nobody is really looking at her comments persay but the people she posted to and the people who go there. So that is probably why your blog got removed quicker than her comment... than again im not the mooderator so i dont know just my two cents!

i am simply amazed by the double standard being applied here..when I asked a conservative male to stop posting to me...what did i get from people...o hes just teasing ...blah blah blah...seems as long as it is a conservative male...its all good...odd how when its a liberal male it becomes stalking....pleazeeee...you can post on my blogs or profile any time you want...i will be watching ...as always from the shadows...lol..

Dude, why are you so adiment about FRDR? Just curious.

I noticed you like Thai food. Have you been to Sushi Thai? What do you think of it? My boyfriend loves the place but I'm kind of eh about it.

Then I would come to the conclusion that you alway's attempt to follow every rule no matter how assinine you find it. Would this be correct?

"It's that simple. How she chooses to react to it is her choice. I've made mine."

Not telling you your business, but it sounds like the thing to do now is just quietly report abuse instead of telling everybody you're going to report abuse. Everybody got all bent outta shape over that. Just post your posts, and report the abuses you want to report. You're not breaking any rules and you're not in the wrong. Nobody gets your point but me and maybe a couple others. You announced it to the world because you want to change her behavior. In a way, that is doing her a favor. If you just anonymously report her, you might end up getting her posting privileges revoked.

Considering your chosen profession I can understand you wanting to be everyone elses defender but would that not be unsolicited. You stated you didn't mine the inuendo's but others may but that the derogatory comments did bother you. Would it have not been a better avenue to have simply asked her to refrain. You may have tried this and I'm unaware of it so if you have ignore the suggestion. As for the norrow minded view or click, I know she has issues with pikemom because of racist comments and actions that pikemom has taken. Now it would seem also with your profession that this would offend you as well.

Which is what I intend to do going forward. You are correct that my goal is to change behaviors, not to silence dissent.

i understand and wish you luck... that is a very hard task when people are set in their ways and their own beliefs and concepts.

I know she has issues with pikemom because of racist comments and actions that pikemom has taken. Now it would seem also with your profession that this would offend you as well.

so very true

"I've taken Pike to task in the past as well. I honestly don't want this to be seen as a vendetta against FRDR. It isn't intended to be one. Many many people on here disagree with me (and others) in a respectful fashion, and I actually relish that. It's what discussion is supposed to be about. I just want her and indeed all of us) to find a way to do that as well."

It did and does appear as though you have a vendetta towards her. As for the disagreement I do believe you and I have had a few as well.

I will admit that yours and anyone elses support of the ACLU I fund disturbing but that's just my opinion. I have no problem with having a civil disagreement with anyone but I do have the ability to get in the mud when needed. Till our next debate.

Good day.

'I'll clarify the statement to say that the term "Indian", when used to refer to Native Americans, been characterized to me by the Native Americans I know personally as being offensive to them.'

Thanks. That's good to know. I didn't ask in order to correct your grammar; I am genuinely interested as to whether it's considered offensive by a member of that race. I appreciate the response.

"I didn't take it that way"

Good. Just wanted to be sure.

"I've lived long enough to have seen more than enough ugliness and rancor directed towards this group or that one."

I'm not a fan of it, either. I'd prefer to see everyone treated as an individual, by both ally and foe. I believe the terms people use -- both PC and hateful -- go against this, so I typically don't subscribe to either. But if an individual wishes to be designated a certain way, I'll use his/her preferred term, out of simple courtesy.

"I tend to stick up for the underdog, which is probably what rankles many around here."

Some, yes. There are other qualities that people dislike, but I won't state them unless asked.

Btw, your underdog sentiment is somewhat ironic, since Feisty assesses herself the same way.

And "rankles" is just a really fun word.

Have a good day!

"It wouldn't bother me if you wanted to enumerate then."

Some people consider you arrogant. I think you already knew that, but I didn't want to just volunteer it.

Beyond that and the underdog stance, it's all about your politic views (which go back to the underdog stance in many ways, so maybe that doesn't count as "another" reason). Again, I'm sure you already knew this.

Wrt Feisty, it's on her profile. I won't pass judgment on it or your own self-assessment, but I believe each of you has a big heart, a passion for your views, and a scrappy willingness to champion certain causes. Beyond that, you stand on either side of a very wide chasm. :-)

* political, not politic

"I've also been accused of trying to belittle people for doing nothing more than speaking in a manner and with a vocabulary no different from that I would use in any other conversation"

Something you have in common with Steve! He blogged about that several months ago. Both of you have an impressive vocabulary and an eloquent style.

does anyone consider the rights all americans would lose without the aclu? anyways....still watching from the shadows.

I have a lot to say but now is not the time to say it.

btw where is lightfoot? i went to his profile it was gone...

Just a note to say that I really do like Chapel Hill and thanks for the posting fun on the big(ger than Minneapolis) city of Raleigh.

I enjoy reading your posts on various topics - you have a penchant for addressing the facts (amazing) without a lot of emotion (even more amazing). You also seem to be quite literate -- astounding! -- among the posters that pop up from time to time. Keep up the good comments. Life is what you make of it, isn't it?

the lost guy...I'm not really sure what the deal is with him, i know he just moved here so dont know if he doesnt have a tv yet or what? he had started a thread on one of my other message boards, but didnt title it very well, and couldnt edit the post title to reflect what he needed- i had started a new thread asking for him, and a mod deleted it saying there already was one- i went through 28 pages of carp and couldnt find it, so i called the mod out on it, and got an 'infraction'- whatever the hell that is...i guess a 'no no bad girl you cant say that to a mod' thing...whatever...he had asked if he could come to our house (ummm no) lol but I did tell him Id try and see what i could find out...

its so hard being nice some days. lol

It's really good to see that you are finally having a good time in here. Have a great evening!

im all for company, but not when I don't know you at ALL...lol I'm sure hes a perfectly nice guy and all...but don't all serial killers start out that way?? ;)

I feel for him- hes new here, doesnt know anybody...itll take him awhile to get all his stuff together and make friends. I guess its hard moving to a totally new area ( been here my whole life, so I've never had that problem. Add the fact that I kept my maiden name and people track me down from school all the time! lol). It'd probably be different if he lived across the street or something, but im way up in franklinton and hes down in fuquay- thats quite a hike!

Not knowing anyone is one reason why I'd hate to leave the area...lol I'm antisocial as it is, don't need to be somewhere where I don't know ANYONE! :)

good idea, although I (don't think) I said anything too bad! :)

"does anyone consider the rights all americans would lose without the aclu? anyways....still watching from the shadows." Shouldn't this read "the rights of every american murderer, american rapest, american pornographer, american child molester, american deadbeat that got fired from his job, american minority that got hired because of his minority, american the world owes me something would lose without the ACLU.

Agreed, cid! Thanks.

I dont know how you put up with Fiesty,she thinks she is all that and then has all these people follow her around like watchdogs.Its rather anoying,wouldn't you agree.ROFL

That's what it is all about. Fat Tuesday is the celebration before Ash Wednesday and Lent when you begin your Easter Fast. It's a Catholic/Christian celebration.

Elcid, may I please have your permission to speak with you about something here on your blog?

I was funnin to. Beads and Boobs, exactly.

Feel free to come on my profile any time.

We agreed? OK...EMS is enroute. If anything bad happens, you may have my colletion of stuffed yaks.

Good morning.

No worries on the email addy, many know it anyway. Hmmm...you are agreeing with me on some things and now with Steve? I would love to meet your wife :-)

Have a great day.

Hope you are having a great Friday. With the humor you have started offering, you may see more comments from. Have a great weekend! I'm leaving soon...just too much fun here...lol

Yikes! Glad the sun is shining here. Hope you get warm and dry when you return!

"Some of policies give me gas"

This day of firsts keeps getting stranger -- did Golo's most distinguished just make a scatological joke??? ;-)

Good afternoon elcid, it's been an interesting week. I hope things settle down soon my friend. Have a safe and fun weekend!

"Some of policies give me gas"

Welcome to my world :-) Careful or you'll get nicknamed Feisty Elcid

Hey Elcid, I caught your question on Angela's blog about the profiles, one of them I cannot access (I got killed) so I use the other one that I have now. Sometimes it is weird for me to see me, but I guess it could be worse.

Nothing to forgive, I have wondered myself why they do not delete your profile, etc when they "kill" you but I know the answer...pageviews :-) And, that is not automated in their system. It was a legitimate question, and I do find it kind of freaky when I see me but it isn't me....

I read your blog, that was a great article/ speech. I intend to copy highlights and send out. I want my friends and family to wake up!!

Have a great night.

I'm just a bit curious. Where do you teach? Do you have any experience as a trial lawyer?

Good Morning elcid89 and thanks for that post about civility. I have a pretty thick skin and freely admit English was not my best subject. Thanks again, and I hope you are having a super start to your weekend!

No deviousness whatsoever, if that's something about which you are concerned.

Actually, I have my future options open as far as continued education is concerned. Also, my mother and both of her brothers are lawyers and/or judges. One of her brothers has worked on a few high-profile cases.

Lastly, your online persona is interesting/intellectually stimulating.

Duly noted. Have a good day.

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