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elcid89


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golo member since: September 6, 2007

about elcid89

With all of the complaining that goes on here (some of you honestly seem incapable of doing anything else BUT complaining ...), GoLo has become depressing.

With the general trend towards the banal and inane, GoLo has become a waste of my time. 

What is it about this place, which has so much promise of bringing people together to discuss ideas and learn from one another, that it brings out the worst in people instead?

You'll forgive me if I take my leave of it.





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thanks for the tip....I don't who the t....y person is...don't recall reading them...I'm OK with that.

"My motivations are what they are. To paraphrase another GoLoer which you seem to admire, feel free to avoid my blogs if they annoy you. I'm through attempting to consider everyone's feelings and play nice. Speaking frankly, I'm more than a little fed up with quite a few people on here , and have been for some time now. I might as well act like it. "

That's fine, but when someone like you attacks another user under the GUISE of honorable intentions (like merely wanting Golo rules to be enforced), I'm going to call you out on it every time.

Had you been up front about this being about TMedlin, I would have respected your honesty. But you tried to give yourself the appearance of taking the high road. Which you clearly weren't.

I don't ignore blogs. I look at them all. If I need to respond, I respond. I think that's how it works.

hello elcid. I'm not around much these days, but it's good to see you back. Hope you are doing well.

"Works for me. I walked away having moved on to the next thing on my to do list. I find few things more condescending than someone feeling that they need to intercede on my behalf with a non-existent delusion."

One man's compassion is another man's condescension.

btw, I also hope you're doing well.

OK, I didn't realize your blog against people like TMed was in the context of Steve being booted (I didn't even know he was). But on its own merit, it appeared to be an anti-TMed blog disguised as a blog against unequal enforcement of the TOS.

Why was Steve booted?

"No, then you get into the phenomenon of preexisting conditions and such. Once dropped by one company, the odds of being picked up by another one fall very quickly"

True - my wife has had a spinal fusion surgery and we cannot get coverage for her without it being under a group plan (i.e wea re currently "without"). I have first hand knowledge of "financial hardship" I believe the term to be...

There is no denying some very serious issues regarding health care cost - I stated in the same blog that I did not know how to fix it but I know for certain that the government has neither the WILL nor KNOWLEDGE required to truly fix the problem.

Besides, without any hobgoblins to rescue us from, how will they get into office?

El,

I hope you’re doing well these days ....

I hate to admit it, but under my callous engineer exterior is a bit of an idealist.

Although I have provided expert testimony in my area of expertise (I’m a registered Electrical Engineer, presently the world’s oldest graduate student - well, maybe - working on a PhD in EE) I think that I still have a very idealistic and naive view of the legal system.

I suppose that I think of the legal system as a place where two men can go before an impartial arbitrator to reconcile their differences when they are unable to reach an agreement between themselves.

Personally, I don’t think that should be necessary at all. I have always been able to resolve my own problems, including a divorce, by trying to keep an open mind and continuing to talk about the problem ....

I know .... hopelessly idealistic, at least about some things ....

Have a good evening,

Len (aka STS)

"start with a considered & rational debate about what is broken and how best to fix it. That hasn't occurred yet, and now probably can't for a good while."

I think it is not in the interest of the state and that's the primary reason it's not happening.

"That said, it does need to occur, given the rate of cost increases and increasing limitation of access that are happening."

Agreed.

My fear is that the first "government program" will be disastrous and there is nothing so permanent as a "temporary" government program.

El,

In engineering, quite a few of us have had their ‘bridges’ to fall. Myself, I carry a number of tooth marks....

So far (knock on wood) no one has sued me. I have been able to resolve all my difficulties – about 40 years worth – out of court. Some, I’ve had to pay for. I don’t feel bad about this at all: It’s arrogant to think you will never make a mistake.

MANY of my colleagues are very reluctant to admit error, even when it’s obvious to the casual observer on a galloping horse that it’s there. My philosophy has always been to admit the mistake, pay the price, and move on. (Aside: This doesn’t mean that I will willingly take responsibility for someone else’s errors or omissions ....)

It has brought me much success and, actually, very little grief.

I’m naive enough to believe that if everyone thought this way, life would be a LOT simpler ....

Len (aka STS)

"I think it's a combination of factors. 1)..."

Pretty fair assessment, I would say.

Odd your blog was just flagged by "visitors".

Hey dude. What's up? Keep on keeping on. You're one of the few around here that actually make sense!

As I was typing when your blog was PULLED:

This same thing happened to another member who was recently booted. I'm guessing that those who pulled that stunt before are doing so again, and again in getting your blog pulled. :S

I tried to post this but you blog was targeted again:

I am afraid that there are those that seem to be targeting individuals for deletion. I wish that was just some sort of stupid rumor but it appears that it is indeed true.

The culling of your old blogs and posts is just a way they may have decided to "flush" those that are undesirable to them.

Sick. I do believe I enjoyed being online more when there was a kind of intelligence barrier to entry. You needed at least a basic level to get online.

For those who think this is a valid method in targeting people, Please read Paradise Lost by Milton - Is it truly better to reign in hell than serve in heaven?

ryoung, you are right.

Yep, that was the quickest ever.

However, some nutjob had just posted a blog on welfare and then called out the Managing Editor and all of Golo staff.

Maybe the Golo staff is in a hyper vigilant mode right now.

Well, since your blog got flagged for review by visitors, I surmise you are being targeted. This is utterly ridiculous!

You are the most intelligent man on golo and with that, you also have a sense of humor. Rare for here.

I do hope management will look closely at the reports. I've never seen you post anything deemed inappropriate.

(internet went out again on me!)

Elcid, I'm guessing that some on here have a problem with people who are actually intelligent, such as yourself and at least one other person?

feisty said it well...there are groups here who target some, hit abuse to everything they do. The golo dumping system is flawed, we don't all wish to live in a white bread world. You need to hang around, you are the only golo person from Belgium,ha. More importantly, you are a great inspiration to those of us who try to read...and think. I don't consider rah rah a comment, and I am not speaking of anyone in particular. You always truly comment, and you would be a great loss to us.

btw, you have always handled yourself with class, and honor. You could disagree with calling people morons or idiots. You were not arrogant, or demeaning, despite the fact you are likely more intelligent than 99% of his here. Thank you.

change with to "without"...big difference.

I hope that Mr. Grannis uses VERY SIMPLE terms. More than one syllible makes the paranoid schizophrenics go into a frenzy. I don't think any of them will ever understand. These are the type of people that think they can refuse fingerprinting when they are brought in.

Anyone see a pattern starting???

"Anyone see a pattern starting???"

Admittedly yes. I can't comment on your profile though. Didn't want you to think I was ignoring your comments here.

"I just had my doo did" and it looks wonderful :-)

I followed you on the examples. When he gave them the weapon he actually gave up his privacy to the weapon. The key word is he relinquished it to them. If they had took it for no reason then it would be a different matter.

I hope you don't get the boot, i'd really miss your intelligent comments.

http://www.wral.com/golo/blogpost/5904086/

I just now saw this. Please take care of your health!! You get 5 strikes, so 2 is not bad...

Elcid, I am very sorry you have been attacked. Please know that there are some of us on GOLO who have the utmost respect for you. I am one of them. Take care.

So.....can I presume that you are feeling better???

Let me play armchair psychologist for a moment.

It seems that, since you began on golo, you have sought out conflict. You have said it is because you don't like the rules being applied differently to different people. I think it is because you miss the conflict that came with your profession.

Angela is not a judge and the rest of us are not jurors. What you are seeking is not affirmation of your beliefs, but validation that you have "won". You won't get it here.

I should also add that I have always had a very visceral reaction to bullies. When I was younger, that reaction manifested itself physically. As I got older, it manifested itself through my profession.

As long as you continue to use your education as a blunt instrument, I will continue to step in between you and those who can't aren't equipped to block the blows.

You have a great deal to offer in this forum. But yours is only one voice among many. You need to remember that.

(or it could be the meds . . .)

Some things aren't worth it, forbidden ice cream is...

Get some rest and take care of yourself. As you have time, tell me about where you are (you're abroad, correct?). And, listen to the Dr. Mrs.

You know we all (spouses/women) stick together, right? Good night Elcid.

Heya elcid,

I'm gonna add my 3 cents (adjusted for income tax increase here in NC today). ;)

I think that there are plenty of bullies at GOLO. Hell, I've probably upset someone before, and I don't really post much compared to many of the others around here. ;)

I like you. You're good people. It has always been my observation that people who are the most strongly opinionated are both the most entertaining AND the most likely to wind up being the targets of one another.

Sooo... if people aren't brave enough to step right up to your profile and tell you what they think, then take it as a compliment.

Prolly means they're scared of engaging you, because they don't feel intellectually capable of defending themselves if you choose to retaliate.

I mean that in the most flattering of terms.

Basically, you rock.

Good health, friend.

Namaste!

Hate that the attackers are after you. Put it in a box as quick as you can. Don't let them ruin your day. Chin up and pfffft on them. Jealousy does strange things to people. I have seen it in action. Changes a sane, logical person into a raving lunatic. I have learned it is best to stay away from them if possible.

"...wondering why I bother returning when coming here is inevitably depressing and poisonous for my day."

You certainly aren't the first person to ponder that question. The way I have learned to tolerate it, and even enjoy it most of the time, is to approach golo as a cultural anthropologist would approach field observations of another civilization. That is, to find a balance between being a detached observer and an active participant. Although I'm not an anthropologist or sociologist, sometimes I am fascinated by the social dynamics of an online community like this. Maybe that's also why I enjoyed Lord of the Flies so much!

Bored with retirement???? Good heavens man!!! You gotta go out and start a new hobbie. Like ships in bottles. or target shooting, or fishing. Long walks are nice. Have you and the misses tried naked friday's?. For years I stopped hunting with rifles and picked up a camera....man that was neat !!!. I like to restore antique farm tractors, they are a lot of fun to tink with. You used to be an attorney, if your liscence is up to date, how about just a small amount of pro bono work??? Boredom is simply a state of mind. Dont let it get you down. You have a FINE mind.....excercise it. It is good to see you active on golo again. Do you think I'll ever get sued for not selling a gun to someone based on gut feelings???

I have always enjoyed your blogs and comments, Now after our discussion I realize you are a very smart person too. You say what you think and feel w/o abuse, I respect that. I am glad you are one of my friends. I like you! :-)

"I honestly do not know. I haven't been able to get the details. Spunky ostensibly knows, and I asked her to email them to me, but haven't heard anything."

Thanks, I guess you still haven't heard anything? And is Steve back under a new identity? Or did he just call it quits after getting the boot?

"The general consensus among everybody I have talked to is that she and Angela are friends, and as a result she's allowed to get by with whatever she wants on here. If the blog was truly an attack, it was directed much more at Angela & the admin for being biased and showing crass favoritism than it was at that other person. She was just a means to make the argument."

If this is true, there's really no excuse for it. But it's also life. It's not always fair. Sometimes it's not WHAT you know, but WHO you know. There's a lot of truth to that.

"Ah, those who hate what they can never equal :-P"

There is more than one way to view someone that isn't equal to you....... :)

Good morning!!! I know we have talked before and have given me some great advice...Well i was gonna see if you could answer a few questions to see what my next step should be...Do you know some of the laws and rules on deeds and quitclaims??? Thanks

Sure...I will try and make a long story short. I bought my house 10 years ago, alone just my name. I dated a guy for about 5 and we bought an inground pool together and was put on my property. we both signed and Hes name is now part of the house as well. (we were both stupid for signing things we didnt understand) Anyways, we are no longer together, I have since married but his name is still on my house. I offered to refinace the pool to get his name off and he has already signed a quitclaim. But I cant refiance until i actually have the deed. And also they are saying my husband has to sign for it as well.

Yes, it was amended when we purchased the pool together. And yes, i was the only that was buying the house and it was just my name. And yes, his name is still showing as being the owner of the house, Just got my tax bill and his name is on it. Hes name doesnt not show up on my mortage statement, Thats why i didnt really know that he was added onto the house. He has signed a quitclaim but he said that hes waiting on me to refinace before he will release it...but at the same time hes threating me that hes gonna sell his half or I can buy it???

Yes, thats all hes tring to do...I know its an ugly situation. Thanks for your advice, I just didnt want to go into this thing blind. I hope everything goes smoothly!!!! Im so glad to see that you are doing and feeling better.... Hope youi have a good weekend

El,I wondered what happened to you.Hope you are ok??Try the morning bloggers if things weren't good for you later in the day.Good to see you comment on someone else's post.

El Cid, hope all is progressing well with you and thanks for your contributions to my blog this morning. You kept me inside and I needed to be out, but good.

I did get on you for being a bull in a china shop, but sometimes you let loose and you have a power of language and argument that overwhelms...remember that, please, for you words speak with authority and knowledge...and I had to moderate, I thought. Seems to me you took it with ease and went on with power and grace in phrases:

Something to consider though

THAT I agree with, although I

Ok, consider the alternative.

Well said. I find few things more

While I understand the basis ...

says a lot about them, IMO. (IMO softens you)

And I respect your devotion to this single issue, but...

...that are offensive and extremist besides race, friend.

And this is a good start,

The problem, IMO,

...to sidestep it? Please ...

Exactly, so does...

Not to disparage your own contribution, but...

That was big of you, Thanks again.

re:Your comment on the second hand smoking issue-The EPA 1992 study, or review of studies was flawed, & declared so in court. it left out studies that didn't support it, doubled the found risk, then went back and cut in half the reliability of the statistical evidence to support a position they were obviously pursuing all the time-- not good science. In 1998, a court found The EPA finding to be bad science...manipulated. http://www.nytimes.com/1998/07/20/us/judge-voids-study-linking-cancer-to-secondhand-smoke.html

The big WHO study, found only one statistically significant thing "exposure during childhood was not associated with an increased risk of lung cancer." That wasn't reported until BBC forced its released. WHO still ignored their data and headlined the result of 16% increase in danger to spouses, which was in the insignificant, margin of error range of their study. http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/9776409?dopt=Abstract

Help me with better data for 2nd hand smoke, please

That is really cool that you have family connections with Middleton plantation. I know theres not much of the original home left but that site on the Ashley is just beautiful!

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