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rocknhorse


name: barbara

golo url: rocknhorse.golo.com

born: 1969

gender: female

city: benson, nc

golo member since: July 18, 2007

about rocknhorse

I've been a GOLO member for some time now and thought maybe it was time to update my profile. 

As stated before, I'm a happily married mother of two wonderful kids.  Life doesn't get any better.  I am truly the luckiest person in the world to have my wonderful family!  My husband and I are self-employed and have been for 10 years.  We've had our struggles in the past, but it's the strength of our love that supports us through the tough times. 

I am fortunate to have 4 horses, which I train using gentle methods.  I believe that you have to see the world through their eyes.  When you can successfully do that, then you can understand them and train them accordingly.  This philosophy works equally well when communicating with people.

I am an optimist.  Even during bad times, I seek the silver lining!  Every event, every mistake is a learning experience.  Rather than dwell on the negative, focus on the positive and don't waste the lesson!    

I have been accused of being very opinionated and stubborn - neither are negative traits in my opinion!  I believe what I believe, but I'm open to other opinions.  While I may respect your opinion, that doesn't mean I'll agree.  Likewise, just because I may disagree, that doesn't mean I cannot still respect your right to your opinion.

I believe as Americans, we have been afforded the same opportunities.  Some of us took advantage of those opportunities and some did not.  Those who work to excel and to better their lives should not be held back for the benefit of those who do not! 

I believe in a hand up but not a hand out!

I believe in accountability/responsibility for your actions!  Life is about choices and every action involves CHOICE!  If you make the wrong choice, you should be held accountable-no excuses!   

Beauty comes from within!  It is confidence in being who you are and liking/loving that person!!! 

Topics that are extremely important to me are drunk driving and anything that involves kids.  Wrecks that occur because of drunk drivers are not "accidents."  Kids need to be protected.  People who abuse kids should be dealt with in manners that I cannot state here.  

Finally, I believe in honesty, but diplomacy when interacting with each other. 

Welcome to my profile.  I have many pictures in my Image Gallery!  I welcome comments, thoughts, discussions and debates!

To see a cummulative collection of pics/blogs about our house move/restoration experience, go to http://www.wral.com/golo/asset_gallery/3448458/ . 


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favorite music: country, rock

favorite movies: action/suspense

favorite hobbies: horses, house restoration

favorite tv shows: boston legal, grey's anatomy

favorite restaurants: chinese, mexican, steak

favorite web sites: horse training sites, dancing sites

favorite vacation spots: mountains





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G'Mornin', Rockin', hope all is well with you this fine morning. It's so nice and breezy outside, I may have to push myself away from GOLO and go enjoy for a few minutes before the critter chores begin. :)

I'm doing right well, hope you are too.

Hello:

I just thought I'd come by and say hello! We haven't seen you around on GOLOer's FOR CHRIST, but I wanted to check on you and let you know we have been praying for you!

Love ya and come by GFC and say hello!

No, the comment is fine to leave up. Thanks for offering to delete it, but I'd rather it stay there for others to see the ignorance of that person.

Thank you for the friends request.

Mini Me has AIG twice a week. So far, I'm not really impressed with the program at the school she attends now. She was in the TAG program (talented and gifted) at her last school and the TAG teacher was fantastic. Maybe it will improve.

Thanks for accepting!

We are in Wilson County. Last year we were in Nash Co. Mini Me was state certified TAG last year. The program there was much as you described. I'm going to keep tabs on this program and if it doesn't improve, I may take her to Sylvan just to keep her challenged.

I agree completely about the business trips! He was working an assignment that had him out of town Monday - Thursday, and that was kind of fun - I got to hang out with friends, do the gym, watch my TV shows, etc. during the week and then we spent time together on the weekends. I'm even OK with the trips of a week or so, but much longer than that and it gets a little old!

House is looking great! You must be soooo proud, and tired, but with that satisfied tired. I know!

Not too long now.. I'm so excited for you!

Now, get back to work and get it finished! /* swat on backside (LOL) */

{{{ HUG }}}

Hi Rocknhorse,

Can you please help me? I noticed that on your blog, you started the new DWTS group and you made group members editors. I have a group, I started a good while back and I want them to be able to post blog in our group, but I can't get the blog option to come up. I just made eveveryone EDITORS. I thought that meant, they could create a blog, but after I saved it, no blog option appears on our group page.

If you could please tell me what I'm doing wrong, I would really appreciate it. LOL!

Thank you!

Beth

LOL! Well, I just clicked on "help w/ GOLO blogs" and I'm doing it right. Everyone is editors! I guess that the blog option just doesn't show up, it seems like it would though, to me. :-)

I can type, but I'm not very good with understanding directions, obviously. Hee hee!

Beth

I figured it out! You have to create a blog, in order for the blog icon to show up. Sorry about that - my brain is on vacation.

Have a good day.

Beth

Thank you so much for the kind words. It means a lot. Have a wonderful evening.

missed ya

I hope that you are having a great wednesday are you guys still busy out of town? I hope that he gets to come home soon! I dont like when I home without my husband to.

He actully does not work out of town, he works for a company thats about an hour and a half aways from our home. He works 1st shift and than they rotate the gys to 3rd shift every week they change them! So every other week Im at home with the girls! He works 12 hour shifts so they dont need a 2nd shift! I get my 2 year old to sleep with me, shes my protection lol!!

Rockn...Thanks for your comments. The family feels awful for the boys family. They understand and accept their outrage and feelings. We are not making excuses for Micahs actions. He participted in this mess and as far as we the family are concerned he needs to accept responsiblity for his actions. His parents are not going to bond him out, we will get him a lawyer as he cannot afford one. But, that is it. We hope this will wake Micah up and realize that society has rules and if he wants to be a participant of this society he has to follow the laws of it. I just didn't want people blaming the parents for his actions because we have honestly tried to help Micah, but he can't seem to get it through his head that there are consequences for his action. Hopefully, now he will. Please continue to keep the other childs family in your prayers, they have a long road ahead of them with the surgeries. We will keep them in our prayers as well.

Interesting. After having read the entire series of entries, I found only one comment about your child, asking a name. I saw no threats, other than those issued BY you to others. And some of those were rather volatile

You should have seem what that navy guy wrote before WRAL cleaned up that post. US-citizen is quite right in taking charges against that guy

Thanks. It's been a long road.

sorry, horse. I was out and now the blog is gone.

You misspelled piece. The correct spelling would be P-I-E-C-E, not peice. I was actually waiting for your mom to come over so we could start making babies No_more_NAACP GOLO member since January 19, 2008 September 26, 2008 11:55 p.m. Report abuse

This is what NAACP wrote towards me. Now he is attacking my mother, and I never even got into it with him. Nice guy isn't he. I pointed out to him that people's kids were off limits, that was his respnonse. Nice guys we have in the navy these days

Hey Rockn! Thanks for the friend request! I thought we were already friends though - my oversight - I follow/love every gallery of your house move. And, thanks for the compliment on Beckett!

Hope you have a great Sunday!

hopeless, just ignore him. He's trying to bait you. For some reason, that appears how he gets his jollies.

you are exactly right about critters. My girl knows I am in pain, and she is in her most un-demanding mood for attention/walks/treats...you name it. I filled the bird feeder, so they are happy. Thank you for your kind thoughts.

will do rocknhorse, have a good day

Have a great day!

HI! ((HUGS))

thanks, have a good day too

Getting ready to paint walls, huh? Colors?????

Hey Rockinhorse - Saw your comments to Lightfoot on the blog this morning, I agree with them 100%. Went through the same thing years ago and although I go to a church now and have for some time I have not "joined" it as a member and doubt I ever will. Tends to leave a nasty taste in your mouth when your "family in Christ" act like jackals. That is one of my biggest problems with Barack - he supports Wright's racist beliefs and anti-American prose or he would never have continued attending and supporting that church for 20 years.

Rockinhorse - Saw your comment on my profile. I agree with your feelings on that; tithing is extremely important and yet it is a reflection of your relationship with God, which in essence is PERSONAL. That being said, I have shared testimonies how tithe works but I never mentioned amounts. Wish you the best in your search for the place God wants you to be at. --Jointheir

Hey Rockn - I left a couple of comments on your blog. I have been where you are - am actually probably going to begin looking for a church closer to our home. We have been attending one for awhile now but have not joined, it is pretty far from our home and we are at the point of being ready to serve more in the church (we were very involved in the the church we left that left the bad taste in our mouth). And the one we are currently going to is a good church but caters a bit too much to non-believers and is afraid to discuss sanctification, spiritual transformation, or any difficult topics that Christ calls His followers to. So, I think that it was nice to go to a large church where we could remain relatively anonymous after our bad experience but we realize that it cannot meet our spiritual needs so it is time for the search to begin. I hate that - hate registering as a newcomer, I do not want to be announced and I do not want visitors if I visit a church one time. Hmmm....

Ugh - maybe we SHOULD just stay where we are :-)

Rockinhorse, Good for you, keep looking and most of all PRAYING. He will lead you to where you need to be, and where He wants you to grow. Just be open to His logic not necessarily yours, as His MANY times if not all does not match our logic.

gigglegigglesnortsnort ar ar ar

WHEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I love your cabinets!! What a bright, cheerful room it will be.

Nice foggy photo of the sun peeking between the trees. Actually it's a great photo!!

I see your beautiful white cabinets and recessed lighting! that you will enjoy for years and years! What kind (and color) of tops are you going to put on top of them? Just curious... my guess is granite or solid surface. Either will look great.

Good morning girl, you are so inspiring me with these restoration pics. I see alot of hard work and beautiful results. The kitchen looks great, love the lighting and nothing beats white cabinets. My kitchen is my joy, a source of comfort to me on many levels. Hubby and I have spoke for two years on the pros and cons of painting it ourselves. LOL!! Just haven't gotten up the nerve to DIY it yet! Thanks for sharing this project, oh and I appreciate your love of horses too. I have two, another source of great joy for me...Have a great day sweetie....

Stella

Thanks for the well wishes. The picture didn't turn out as good as it looked on the screen, but it is something to prove there is something growing.

HEY GIRLY! ((HUGS))

I'd love to help, but I have to get my own house finished first !! :-)

hope you have a great day too! ((HUGS))

Congrats on your Phillies :)

Thanks for the friend request....Gotta know i'm rooting for your Phillies..I actually believe that y'all will win :)

:)..Last night was about execution...Rays did and BOSOX didn't :(

"mark, more often than not, yes! But I'm wanting to prove a point. "

And the person you're talking to has already gotten the point. But they'll never admit it. Makes you just want to slap hell outta them, doesn't it? lol

I thought it was just funny in general, the grenade launch for the pitchers mound was hilarious!!

I will second that, I have coached baseball, softball, and soccer, but the way some parents and coaches act is reprehensible!! I have mostly coached the younger ages and it should be more about , especially at the T-Ball level, sportsmanship and learning the fundamentals of the game, not yelling at me because I pulled your child for acting like a @zz the same way they are acting at that moment. I also rotate my players in and out to try to give equal playing time regardless of skill level. Like I said this is younger kids that I am working with, I can see being more competitive at the older ages.

hey rockn... this pic looks like it was taken on hwy 42?

lol i travel that way to get to the mother in laws usually hubby is driving so I get to sight see! ;) Everyone always notices horses ;)

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