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tired of excuses


born: 1964

gender: female

golo member since: July 7, 2007

about tired of excuses

First and foremost I believe in freedom of speech.  You may not agree with what I say but I have a right to express myself so long as no physical harm is inflicted upon you.  If you don't agree then feel free to post something to me.  I love a good debate and discussion. 

I love this country and although it isn't perfect, we've come a long way as a nation and those of you who don't like it here are free to leave.  I have traveled the world, have lived abroad and would rather live here than anywhere else!

I pay taxes and have worked hard to  instill in my children that every action has a consequence and that nothing in life is free.  I resent parents who don't parent their children, then expect a handout to take care of them at the tax payers expense.  

 I support governement mandated birth control for young women ages 14-21 and drug testing for those who receive state aid (Welfare and Medicaid). If the test is positive children should be immediately removed and put into foster care because clearly, the parent testing positive for drugs doesn't have child rearing as one of their priorities.  Why give support to parents who do drugs when they have children to take care of and feed?  Just because someone has a baby doesn't mean they are fit to parent a child.   

Yes, pretty extreme but ya know what?  It's time. I'm tired of hearing excuses by those who commit crimes that they had a mom who did drugs and a dad who wasn't around.  If it's such a BAD thing, then we need to solve the problem.  Telling someone to not do drugs obviously isn't working.

Thank you for reading and I welcome your comments, questions or complaints. 

Have a great day!


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favorite music: anything but music that glorifies ilegal activity.

favorite movies: love martial art movies, chet li, jackie chan, etc...

favorite hobbies: photography, the performing arts, sports, cooking, wine tasting, staying well informed on current events

favorite tv shows: mad men, two and a half men, sex and the city

favorite restaurants: asian cuisine.

favorite web sites: Fox News, CNN, The Drudge Report

favorite vacation spots: any place with sand, surf and acess to cocktails.





merry christmas and happy xanax posted new profile info.
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unccuteboyd and brian shrader became friends.
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OK. That is an expense I would approve. You know it really irritates me that no one seems to think "they" should be told to stop having these children they cannot afford and usually do not look after very well. I think we should just say "No."

five stars for your "two questions " five stars for your profile statement loved what you wrote!( except music and your food)

Thank you! Bessie Mae looks almost identical to Honey, my other Beagle I lost in 8/07. She has the same sweet dispostion and mannerisms too, as Honey!

:-)

Beth

Sadly, a lot of my posts didn't make it through. I guess because they don't think it's appropriate to tell the truth. I'm a bit frustrated with that but it's their site and I can't do anything about it. Thanks again.

Thank you for the profile post. I appreciate that. Back in the day, not even that long ago, we were taught that we have to pay for our actions and to admit to our mistakes. Apparently neither the family or the criminal in this case want to admit to that. In fact, the only person's fault in this case is his. Ok, I'm starting to rant again. LOL - I really am tired of excuses myself. They use it for everything these days, and even go so far as to try and lay blame on everyone but themselves.

TiredofExcuses, both of my children were normal, healthy infants. We returned to the doctor when both were a week old for check-ups. This is standard procedure to make sure the infant is maintaining weight and receiving proper nutrition, especially when nursing. Because my youngest child was born on Saturday evening, we returned the following Friday, when she was six days old. This is normal.

P.S. Please excuse my typo errors, I promise I can spell, I just type as quick as I think and sometimes forget to proof...LOL

I TOTALLY AGREE with your statement above!!!... I have 3 kidsof my own and I personally feel like if they getout and do something then I am the one that it reflects upon and I am the one responsible for them..needless to say they have the fear of GOD and MOM in them..LOLOL... I think society has became so 'relaxed' in letting kids 'get away' with things and not holding people accounable for their actions. This is why we have gangs and crime rates like we have and unsolved murders. just blows my mind....

Hey. I hate all the crime going on too.

BTW, I believe birth control should start BEFORE age 14.

I agree w/ you on the most part. One child by accident can happen, but more than one? I like your way of thinking. I too am sick of thugs, scumbags, and abusers.

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