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'you people'

Published Nov. 4, 2009
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 Please, someone, explain to me why the term 'you people' is automatically considered by some to be racially charged.

 

I was reading the comments in the Tedesco victory article.  Obviously, some view bussing as a racial thing, some view it as an economic thing. Personally, I think that it started as an ecomonic thing, but a side effect of bussing kids from 'economically challenged' neighborhoods to more affluent ones and vice-versa ended up that white kids were bussed into 'black' neighborhoods, and again, vice-versa.  Doesn't mean that race was the REASON, but a side effect based on the fact that the majority of 'economically challenged' neighborhoods weren't primarly filled with people of the white race.

 

That being said, I wsa baffled when I saw someone speak out against bussing and get backlash for being 'racist'.  He said something along the lines of 'rather than wasting money bussing kids all over the place, why not use money to bring the ramshackled schools up to par'.  He then said something along the lines of 'its not our fault you people trash your schools and trash your neighborhoods.'  It was at that point that he was termed a racist.

 

My question is, why?  When I read that comment, I took 'you people' to mean the inhabitants of the 'economically challenged' neighborhoods.  I didn't take it to mean 'you BLACK people'.  I mean, we all know that whites and hispanics live in poor neighborhoods as well.

 

I guess I'm just confused.  If I was standing in front of a crowd of whites, blacks, and hispanics and said  "You people......", would it be determined I meant  just the black folks in the crowd?

 

Ijust don't understand why 'you people' is deemed to have racial undertones.  It wasn't  just this guy's comment that I've seen this kind of backlash on.  I've seen it in countless blogs too, where someone will say 'you people' and undoubtedly, someone else comes back with 'What do you mean, YOU people???'.  Well, to me, a non-racist, it means just that....YOU.  PEOPLE.  The ones in front of me that I am addressing.  

 

So, can someone please explain?  This isn't a race-baiting blog, and disrespectful comments will be deleted as soon as I see them.  I'm honestly looking for clarification, because I've never understood why this phrase is so negatively received by some, and it seems that when someone uses this phrase, even if they were 110% benign and non-racist with their intention, there doesn't seem to be much recourse after someone points out the phrase as racist.

 

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Ironic...Robert E. Lee during the Great Unpleasantness never referred to Northern soldiers as "the enemy'...only as 'those people"...

Those people who take offence at being referred to as "you people" must live for issues to offence at. Sing it as Natalie Merchant did with her, "Give them what they want" and just start saying "you'se peoples" to make them wonder if you're being serious or facetious.

haggis - the govt is in control of zoning and permitting. Via its laws and relationships with developers and realtors the govt controls what is built, or not built, and where. If businesses were not allowed to "sprawl" all over he11 and back then inner cities would be alive and people would want to be there to work and play. As it is, inner cities are purposely held aside for certain purposes. When it comes to public schools we are expected sacrifice our "freedom of choice". I can choose to kill my unborn child but not where my living child goes to school.

"Our govt purposely plays a role in corralling people of like economics means together geographically and they expect us to sacrifice our freedoms when we enter government schools. Sad."

Please explain what you mean......how are people corralled? And what freedoms do you "sacrifice" to go to Public schools?

YOU PEOPLE on this blog have too much free time on your hands.

"you people" drive me nuts! and by "you people" I mean everybody who isn't me.

I guess it is not what you say, but how you say it.

I've never heard, "You people" in a positive way.

Good blog YourMileage.

Enjoy your day!

"But presentation is the key."

A lesson I've been learning as I age so gracefully. LOL!

And I thought a choke hold only worked on normal people, not you people....Chief Gates, LAPD

Busing did begin as means of "racial desegregation" and was the way to stop black-only and white-only schools. During the same time period housing laws were put in place so blacks could live in white neighborhoods and vice versa. What has happened is the blacks of means have moved out of the traditionally black neighborhoods leaving only those with little economic means. Traditionally black neighborhoods at one time included lawyers, business owners and professionals of all kinds. Not any longer. Today we have "racial desegregation", so, we feel the necessity to bus for "economic" diversity. Our govt purposely plays a role in corralling people of like economics means together geographically and they expect us to sacrifice our freedoms when we enter government schools. Sad.

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