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the roles we play (r)

Published Oct. 27, 2009
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It’s funny how humans thrive on drama. No matter what issue arises, we look for things to argue about, which will cause a stir. We can observe this flaw in the political arena, in religion, in life itself.

 

Of course, when we stand by a certain point - and look for confirmation through facts - we are likely to seek those corroborating facts from sources that share our point of view and look at the issue from the same angle we are. Everyone is going to have different opinions, different facts to quote, and different outlooks directly related to personal experiences and taught values.

 

It is very amusing to watch talk shows. Producers make a living from human drama, and saturate our media with a circus of flaring emotions and half-baked truths. Soap operas last for decades and hook staggering numbers of people through glittering drama, often exposing human flaws that nobody wants to recognize in themselves, yet are present in most of us.

 

We thrive on the negative, and several studies have shown that negative messages are more easily implanted in the subconscious than positive ones. That’s what political campaigns and organized religions thrive on to get their point across.

 

So, why do we thrive on negativity and drama? No matter what our religious affiliation, anyone at all comfortable with spiritual truth halfway believes that we are here for a reason, and we came to earth to learn something.

 

Our soul is here to learn basic lessons of compassion, forgiveness, unity, and tolerance, and we are all actors on the great stage life. By acting out our roles we understand the nuances behind the human drama, and learn our lessons throughout. Sadly, most of us forget we are the actors and blindly become the part we came to play. We become so engrossed in our role that we blend our identity with the character we impersonate. We all forget who we truly are, until something devastating in our lives knocks down our ego and reminds us of what is truly important.

 

Regardless of the fact that some believe in reincarnation and some don’t, we all agree that we only have one life at a time to be in, and we need to make the most of our time while we are here.

 

Focusing on the present, and choosing to overcome the drama we so easily become attached to, can free us from the chains of erroneous earthly perception and give us an edge in understanding who we truly are.

 

 

 

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"... when a couple gets divorced in WV, are they still legally brother and sister?"

Only if they have the same father - the mother doesn't count in WV "familiy" law.....

Good morning all! Bye all! LOL

Have a wonderful day. :)

Madness does not always howl. Sometimes, it is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, "Hey, is there room in your head for one more?" ;)

Good morning Sandra!!!

"... negative messages are more easily implanted in the subconscious...

I've been observing this for a good number of years, just with facial expressions. It sure does seem to prove out.

People do need their drama. Puppies need to fight with a piece of rope like it was a snake. Drama fades with age, where shadows take on a new light.

Hi Sandra! Great blog as usual! I have been thinking a lot about how some people thrive on drama and negative. It is sad...and alot of times they don't even see it. Our minds and attitudes are more powerful than we realize and can mold our reality...even scientific research is proving this. Finding a place of peace and postive light in one's heart can be challenging in the face of hard times, but oddly enough...when you find it...things start looking a lot better usually. Cheers!

If I'm alive, I'm wonderful!

Will do. Have a great day!

You have a great day too, Sandra!

I'd better get out of here and get morgan up for school. Have an awesome day, everybody. :-)

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