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have you ever asked someone if they were pregnant, and turns out that they aren't???

Published Oct. 9, 2008

I'm only asking because this happens to ME quite often, to the point where I'm coming up with humiliating responses to the offenders. Its not that I'm fat, but I'm not stick thin either; some women HAVE CURVES!!!!! I have a 2 year old son (thats part of the "pregnancy problem") and have a pretty lazy job at a bank which requires me to sit on my butt everyday.

Are you guilty of doing this? Do you even apologize for the mistake? I have never asked a woman that I wasn't 100% sure on, but now I just don't ask.  

Ladies....has this ever happened to you? What do you say? My co-workers are amazed that I say anything back and laugh every time they hear me respond to someone. My favorite response is: "I'm not pregnant, I'm just fat, thank you though!" Its just kinda aggravating that peope don't think OR look before they open their mouths.

 



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it did once and i said no thanks im barren , now dont you want to kill yourself ? i bet she never asked that again of someone

I haven't had that problem (lol, surprised though) where I need to learn is assuming that I know the gender...i'd say, he is so cute, lol, i'd get a quick THAT IS MY DAUGHTER, lol, i'm like oh i'm sorry.

local-know-it-all- My apologies for sounding angry or whatever you assumed I was, I'm just trying to make a point. And yes, all those things combined could cause a person to assume a woman is pregnant...especially boobs. If you never had any before and then suddenly you have boobs, and you're much more curvier than before, alot of people are going to expect and naturally assume that you're pregnant. In my case, my body never went back to the way it was before I had my son. So now I'm stuck with boobs that are wayyy too big and more of a curse than ahything.

YES!!! And I wished I had a shovel to bury myself!

ive never assumed a woman was preggo because she had hips, boobs, and a rump. any time i was pondering a woman's pregnancy state it was because of the belly she was toting around. i dont think amv was being rude, she probably just makes the same pregnancy assumptions based on the same reasons MOST people do, and that would be a big, round stomach. so wow, Manda, lay off.

amvaugha- not all women are "blessed" with a perfect body, and in this case; nobody mentioned anyhting about a gut, keep your rude comments to yourself. having hips, boobs (that are MINE and REAL) and a pretty nice backside can all be mistaken for a baby bump. you can shut your pie-hole now, thanks!!!

People thought that I was. I had surgery to remove an 8lb fibroid last year. Now that my midsection is back to normal, my azz doubled.

Threeps, I used to get asked if I was my daughter's grandmother all the time. I was 35 when she was born and have prematurely gray hair.

Now that she's taller than I and just short of 15, I don't get asked that anymore.

It did annoy me when adults did it, but I mostly got it from young school-aged kids to whom gray hair = grandparent.

For the record, I don't think either 37 or 42 is old to have a baby. Heck, when people see me playing with little kids, they ask me if *I* want another one. I'm sorry, but 50 IS too old to have a baby, at least for me. If someone else wants to do that, more power to her.

We didn't try for a baby, it just happened.

A lot of times a woman's breast will get bigger, and people think she is pregnant.

Some say they can tell just by looking at their face.

"My husband and I keep talking about another baby, but so far we haven't gotten serious about it."

Does this mean he's just poking fun at you till you take him serious?

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