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political ambidexterity: appreciating the gray in between

Published Sep 5, 2008
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The fight is on.

 

Whether it’s through vitriol-laced convention speeches or through innuendos and blatant accusations in campaign ads, both sides of the political race focus more on the shortcomings of the opponent than on personal merits.

 

These past few days –especially since Palin was introduced as the GOP VP choice – well-articulated poisoned arrows have been grazing the skies above.

 

Both candidates have been highly acclaimed and endorsed by their own, and have been heavily criticized by the opponents.

 

Stating ahead that I am not particularly led by politics, I have to put in my ten cents: where is the candidate who can stand on his or her own merits, without having to dig trash and rely on harvesting votes by mudding the image of their opponent?

 

As with everything else, we base politics and religion on black and white. If one candidate is good in our eyes, then the other one has to be bad. We must remember that there is such a thing as gray.

 

Personally, I find the good and bad in both parties, and in both candidates. And it is okay. I respect the traditional values of the GOP, as for some things I am old-school myself. I believe in family unity and in good moral standards. On the other side of the coin, I admire the more embracing views or the Democratic Party, as I feel that if we all have to dance in the same ballroom we might as well learn how to dance together, rather than stepping on each other’s toes.

 

Ultimately, the main goal is to create an agenda which will benefit the nation, but we seem to have forgotten that, and have turned yet another upcoming election into a paramount soap opera.

 

Political ambidexterity is truly what we need. We need someone who can lead by the example of his or her own actions, who can embrace pressing issues from all sides and see the gray between black and white. Most of all, we need to stop the childish competition and come together as one nation focused on bringing on changes that can benefit ALL.

 

One hand cannot do all the work, that’s why we were born with two. And if politically the two hands can shake each other rather than wasting energy in slapping and punching, maybe, just maybe, we can hope to get somewhere.

 

Of course, just my ten cents.

  

 

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Very well put Sandra,and I agree, it would be a pleasant change to see a candidate who doesn't "focus more on the shortcomings of the opponent" However, it occurs to me that anyone with the moral integrity to lead with honor would be unwilling to subject his (or her) family to the scrutiny and inevitable abuse that comes with seeking national office. I think we need to change our system.

Awesome point!!! I don't think I have ever thought of it that way! It takes a special animal to be a politician.

I was lost as to who to vote for. Not that I would vote for Obama, but I see McCain as self-serving and churlish. Then I realized that, by using the process of elimination, the decision was made easier. I could more easily vote against someone in this campaign. It made my choice more clear. The choice of VPs (on both sides) put icing on the cake.

Let's not poo poo the system of checks and balances we have. One mind or one party would be a dangerous thing. While I don't care for the devisiveness (sp?) of politics today, we need to have at least two parties so someone is minding the store at all times. Let's us as the citizenry be glad we have stores of food, peace in our neighborhoods and freedom to go and do as we please. I know way to many people who seem to need to be miserable when we are living in the best times America has seen. Be Happy!

It's okay to have two parties. Even three if necessary. What's not okay is that neither is strong enough to stand on its own merits without digging up trash.

We need politicians who care more about their country than about their party. Neither the Republicans nor Democrats seem capable of providing that. I'll reserve judgment on McCain's new slogan ("Country First") for now, since his rhetoric about bipartisanship is sounding more and more like George W Bush's, which of course turned out to be a bunch of hot air. Unfortunately (in my opinion, of course) there are too few voters who care enough about this - they're just happy to beat the "other team", regardless of what the results are. Having a strong political party isn't going to do anyone a bit of good if the country is in shambles.

Great point, Vince-RA!

This is a great blog, Sandra. I always think about the joke about "How can you tell if a politican is lying?" His mouth is moving. With that being said, I will cast my vote for McCain/Palin, as I feel they bring more experience to the table and I like the morals they will bring back to America. That's just my choice.

If Obama/Biden wins the election, I'll still do my part as an American citizen. I'll still be a proud American.

In a sense, it really doesn't matter which one wins the election, they can't do no more than what Congress will let them do. I do like that McCain/Palin said they will VETO every bill that comes up that isn't in the best interest of the American people.

I agree 100% that the "nasty and hateful" comments from both sides should stop. It doesn't accomplish anything, as most people have already made their minds up who they are going to vote for, so why do it? It certainly isn't to "bring people together". Thanks again for a great blog!!

In fact, I think the nasty comments confuse voters. It is time candidates and voters alike grow up and show what they are about, rather than showing what the other isn't.

Thank-you for sharing your thoughts, and helping spread the ideas that many people have, but that get buried beneath the rhetoric.

I appreciated the positive words McCain had for his opponent last nite, and the point that he made about there being more we have in common than set us apart. I wish we could find a way to tap into that idea and build something on it. The political landscape is littered with talking points and one-liners and sound bites, and we will hear them, ad nauseum, because there is SO MUCH MONEY AVAILABLE TO BUY TV TIME. The sheer enormity of the campaign war chests is, frankly, disgusting.

Our system needs serious reform--term limits, campaign funding and spending, and serious, intense oversight within the three branches of government. We all have to wake up and see that for what it is, and decide on a way to work our way out of this hole we're in.

Absolutely true. Sadly, the only politicians who will make it to the final battle are the ones who either have personal funding available to push their campaigns, or those who can lie well enough to be financially endorsed by others. The best salesperson will likely win.

"well-articulated poisoned arrows have been grazing the skies above."

Along with some not-so-well-articulated ones! ;-)

LOL! True.

Great Blog Sandra! I completely agree! Why can't we just realize that in the end we are all on the same team, and should be working for the same general goal! I see the "us and them" attitude too much at work. Maybe it's a part of human nature... to take sides -- even religions where there is one God compete or fight trying to imply their way is the only way.

The truth rarely lies in only one place or the other, it almost always lies somewhere in between!

GoodVibrations, I am with you 100%!

Since I've never been one for team sports, and I don't care about 'winning', I have a tough time when it comes to politics. I think T-man (I think it was you, T-man), made an excellent point about the pendulum. Since the politicians are not allowed by their parties to simply stand up and tell the people what they really think (for example, I don't really think McCain is such a conservative as he's had to paint himself for the purposes of obtaining party favor over the past couple of years), we have to shift the balance of executive and legislative power back and forth every 4-8 years. It is ultimately better for the country.

Supreme court appointments are the ONLY things that ever concern me, as they are lifetime appointments.

The rest is just 'well, if we wind up with someone who is ineffective, we'll just try to fix that 4 years from now'.

I'd like it best if the politicians could go out, tell us what they REALLY think, and not what they think the partisans want to hear.

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