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she must've been a pain.

Published Aug 18, 2008
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This is legitmate but it was removed from the website https://www.legacy.com/TimesHeraldOnline/DeathNotices.asp?Page=ObitFinderOrder&PersonID=115754551 

Dolores Aguilar
1929 - Aug. 7, 2008

Dolores Aguilar, born in 1929 in New Mexico, left us on August 7, 2008. She
will be met in the afterlife by her husband, Raymond, her son, Paul Jr., and
daughter, Ruby.

She is survived by her daughters Marietta, Mitzi, Stella, Beatrice, Virginia
and Ramona, and son Billy; grandchildren, Donnelle, Joe, Mitzie, Maria,
Mario, Marty, Tynette, Tania, Leta, Alexandria, Tommy, Billy, Mathew,
Raymond, Kenny, Javier, Lisa, Ashlie and Michael; great-grandchildren,
Brendan, Joseph, Karissa, Jacob, Delaney, Shawn, Cienna, Bailey, Christian,
Andre Jr., Andrea, Keith, Saeed, Nujaymah, Salma, Merissa, Emily, Jayci,
Isabella, Samantha and Emily. I apologize if I missed anyone.

Dolores had no hobbies, made no contribution to society and rarely shared a
kind word or deed in her life. I speak for the majority of her family when I
say her presence will not be missed by many, very few tears will be shed and
there will be no lamenting over her passing.

Her family will remember Dolores and amongst ourselves we will remember her
in our own way, which were mostly sad and troubling times throughout the
years. We may have some fond memories of her and perhaps we will think of
those times too. But I truly believe at the end of the day ALL of us will
really only miss what we never had, a good and kind mother, grandmother and
great-grandmother. I hope she is finally at peace with herself. As for the
rest of us left behind, I hope this is the beginning of a time of healing
and learning to be a family again.

There will be no service, no prayers and no closure for the family she spent
a lifetime tearing apart. We cannot come together in the end to see to it
that her grandchildren and great-grandchildren can say their goodbyes. So I
say here for all of us, GOOD BYE, MOM.

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How sad

Too close to home to BEGIN to comment....

OK, that's just strange

Guess they got the last word.

Wow.

sad and wrong....i am sorry....that is the woman who gave you life and in the days of old...(when sound hear this term he replies when dinosuar roamed the earth) risk her own life. okay i am being a bit dramatic but so are they.

I want you to know I read this...I'm sorry for your pain..I just can't comment on it...too many things close to home....THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY THOUGH...

wow. hope that family finds the healing they are looking for. you don't have to wait til someone dies. if someone is that poisonous cut them out of you life now! you only get one life. Don't let someone else screw it up for you.

She may not have been a good mother, but I don't think there was a need for that obit.

My neighbor was horrible. His children had nothing to do with him while he was alive.

He had a beautiful obit, and he SOUNDED like a very loved and caring person.

My husband and I have talked about this very thing a few times. Anytime someone dies, you always hear the same old same old, "he was a wonderful man," "everyone loved him...etc" I've always wondered why no one ever comes out and says "this creep was a real shiithead and no one gave a rat's behind about him." She must have been a real piece of work lol!

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