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what constitutes "cheap?"

by Angela_the GOLO Editor
Published Aug 7, 2008
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Good morning GOLO.

We've had an interesting week with Tuesday's discussion about coupons and Wednesday's discussion about dollar stores. As I read through some of the comments, I noticed that several people mentioned that they were disappointed when they received gifts from the dollar store, or that they didn't give gifts from the dollar store...at least not to people they care about. 

That wasn't the most popular opinion but it leads me to this: What makes a person "cheap?"

Is it based on your perception of what they "should" be able to afford?

And what makes you call a person a "cheapskate?"

Seems to me that it's quite the subjective term. Thoughts?

    

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when they walk by the disabled vets raising money and do not give that makes them a cheapskate

not keeping your families best interest in mind and more focused on saving a buck

to me, it's not the amount of money spent on a gift that matters. The amount of money spent does not equal the amount of your love. It's the thought that goes into the gift.

When I give gifts from the Dollar Tree, it's because I know the person will enjoy what I give. For teachers, it means I can give notepads, stickers, activity books, and other materials that will be beneficial to them in their classroom. And I can give more than if I went to another store. What makes that "cheap"? What makes a checkers game bought at the dollar tree for $1 any less than a checkers game purchased at Toys R Us for $20? It's checkers and played the exact same way. What makes a puzzle purchased for $1 at the dollar tree any less than a puzzle purchased somewhere else for 10 times the amount? Shopping at the Dollar Tree/Dollar Store does not make a person cheap nor the gift a poor choice. I've received very expensive gifts that I hated and inexpensive ones I've loved

To me a cheapskate is one who always expects others to pick up the tab and never returns the favor.

Hey,,but maybe I'm just a "cheap" person

Well said NCMom. @Maplesmom: Hmmm, someone who never picks up the tab. I know that type.

The difference in the checkers game is that I still have a 25 year old checkers game that was well made out of good materials.

Being cheap is when $ is your only consideration. Whether that be in the quality you choose for yourself or in how much you are willing to give as a gift or charity.

I admit, I tend to be cheap. I try not to be, I'll try a generic grocery item, but if it is not good I go back to the brand name. I give to charity straight out of my paycheck to make sure I do it.

Cheap is like beauty, it is in the eye of the beholder. When I consider gifts I get from someone I try not to scrutinize people for being cheap. It does drive me nuts when family asks what I want, and I send a link to something from say Walmart, but what they ended up buying was something similar from someplace else. I would not have sent the specific example if that was not what I specifically wanted. Otherwise I would have just put for example- sheets on the list.

My post seems a little snotty. I guess my point is, get me what ever you want, I do not care. But if you ask what I want, take the time to get what I asked for. It is a time thing for me, not price or whatever.

I don't think it's 'cheap' to buy something at a Dollar Store or Walmart, if the item is just as good or close- as what you'd pay in a high-end store. BUT I do think it gets to 'cheap' level when you buy a toy for example at the Dollar Store, that you KNOW isn't going to last very long. For consumable or paper-good items, or even cheap toys that are OK if they only last a short while, then yes, I'll try to save $$. But if it's a toy for my child or someone else that I want to last them awhile, then I'll spend a few extra dollars and get something that will last longer.

I can afford it- but I CAN afford it only because I do try to save $$ in other areas where it doesn't matter. That's not being cheap in my opinion.

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