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brides to be: what are your thoughts on co-ed bridal showers?

by Golo Managing Editor
Published Aug. 2, 2008

I know that more and more couples are having co-ed bridal showers, and even baby showers. I must admit that I'm a bit miffed by the new-fangled baby shower ritual, but I have yet to attend one so maybe the guys do know how to have fun and don't mind all of those girly games.

But back to the question at hand....

Are you having a co-ed bridal shower? Have you attended one? Is that now the norm? Do tell.  



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Over the past 15 years in wedding consulting, I have noticed a large amount of these co-ed showers. The guys love it when you have Home Depot, Lowes, Sears on the lists for potential gifts. Nothing says romance like a new power drill or compressor I guess. They don't seem to be as common in the Savannah area....but then, we are still in an area where they remember "the war of Northern agression"....so go figure!

http://www.humorpress.com/Results/Essays-200602-200603/1st/BainDaniel-Essay-200602-200603-CoedShowers.htm

"Mogwai - with your phrasing, you could write for Dear Abby."

As luck would have it, I didn't write that. Miss Manners did. :-D

In the day of gay marriage, co-ed is going to be a must.

Mogwai - with your phrasing, you could write for Dear Abby.

Actually, it's a great way to meet single bridesmaids :)

It's beyond tasteless for the bride / couple to throw their own shower. It simply isn't done.

Showers are solely thrown (or are supposed to be solely thrown) by friends of the couple, and those friends determine the nature of the event, not the bride / groom.

It's common as dirt for there to be coed showers. I don't know that they're necessarily designed that way, but I do know that a lot of men attend. Five years ago my daughter and her fiance had a "couples" shower, in addition to whatever else they did.

My son got married back in the spring. His office, at a bank in Fuquay, threw a shower for him and his fiance one morning before the bank opened. The interesting thing was, no one at that bank had ever met the girl, and it was instigated by a female department head. It was a great time, good breakfast food laid out, linens and china and they got great gifts.

So yeah...... men do attend. They even get them..... lol.

What with their nerves and "

LOL at Scott, yes, true. I can testify

I am for all the members of the wedding party taking showers. Especially in the summer months. What with their nerves and all they must be getting a bit sweaty so a shower is definitely called for. Although this whole getting a present for taking a shower is beyond me. W hen I was growing up, I did not get a present for taking a shower, but I did get a good but whooping if I didn't. Babies should not be taking showers, they should be washed carefully in the tub or kitchen sink.

Just don't get upset when we get trashed and vomit on the couch."

ROFL Steve, you are a gem.

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