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morning tail

Published Jul. 24, 2008

I drive into downtown Raleigh everyday for work, so I’m used to a lot of traffic and see some strange driving tactics from time-to-time, but this one I really don’t ‘get’….

 

Can someone puhhleeeze explain to me what the OBSESSION is all about for some drivers….

 

The true NEED to tailgate. 

 

Now, let me say –  I’m one that will drive with the traffic – meaning, if the traffic is slow, I slow down.  If the traffic is moving above posted speed, I speed up and stay right with the flow… but I always leave 2-3 car lengths in front of me – just in case.  In the mornings, people are usually wanting to get somewhere quickly, and drive above posted speed – and so will I, as long as it’s not more than 5-8 mph above posted speed (not risking speeding tickets).  If traffic is moving faster, I make sure I’m in the RIGHT hand lane when there are 2 or more lanes – others can blow past me if they want.

 

What gets my goat is the person that feels the need to ride my bumper when traffic is flowing well.  What is going though this person’s mind?  Why do they have to be so close?   Do they feel that if they ride my ‘bootee’ that it will make me go faster?  Or are they just control freaks that need to bring me into their world?

 

I’m a cautious and respectful driver – so I feel responsible for looking out for how I’m driving, my surroundings and what I do.  Signals are used, I don’t cut people off.  So, with the tailgaters, you have now made me feel responsible for you too.  What if I have to hit the brakes… I don’t want you running into the back of me – even though it wouldn’t be my fault – you have now moved from being ANNOYING to being INCONSIDERATE too.

 

What’s up with this?

How do you handle this annoying and dangerous problem?

 



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Oh, by the way, my step-son is a race car driver and he is the one that came up with that phrase, and I agree with him.

It's called the NASCAR mentality.

what gets me is when the tailgater moves out to pass and then gets right back in front of me a stays there, like you can get there quicker by being in front of me, idiot.

not a fan-thats funny-i have done that before!

"Or are they just control freaks that need to bring me into their world?"

That about nails it on the head.

Be safe out there, but keep it moving :)

it's called drafting

I don't hit my breaks, I don't want them to slam into me, but I WILL slow down to a snails pace. I do that until they either stop tailgating me or go around me.

sww1rb - you are so right about Atlanta! I have been to visit, and wow, the traffic is outrageous! But... most everyone knows how to drive in it. Luckily, I was a passenger while we were racing the roadways there. LOL

"The true NEED to tailgate."

Cause they never learned to drive right in the first place.

When I moved to Atlanta a little over 25 years ago, I was use to far more traffic than Raleigh has, even today, but what I was not use to was folks driving 70 mph (on the beltline or I-40) SIX INCHES from the bumper of the car in front of them. One sneeze, and everyone's in a pile.

Are drivers crazy here???

I gave up a good job at RTP because of it, and have never looked back. I've turned down other good jobs at RTP for the same reason.

God bless.

Rev. RB

" I do the windshield wiper trick and then I do the behind my head wave at them as they need to turn on their wipers." Not a fan of roses - Tee hee hee

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