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Published Jul 18, 2008
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What are some things that we as parents can do to support our children's teachers?  Outside of the obvious things such as making sure our children have the supplies they need for class, making sure our children come to school fed and well rested, and making sure they have their assignments. 

As a parent, I'm interested in hearing some of the things that teachers feel are important that parents may not even think about.

As a home daycare provider, I don't often see myself as a teacher.  But from my standpoint, communication and mutual respect is key.  I work long hours and I don't mind going that extra mile when I feel like my parents need it, such as illlnesses and deployment and even just a mental health day.  But it sure makes it easier when I feel like parents have respect for the job I do.  For example, if your child is normally here at 6:30 am and you aren't working that day and decide to sleep in and not show up until 10.  Your child might have been the only one I had for that day and I could have used the extra time to sleep in or run a personal errand.  I don't mind keeping your child after my closing time for a true emergency but my time is as important as yours so if it's close to my closing time, please don't stop off for milk because it's more convienent to do it without your child and then show up 20-30 minutes after my closing time with apologies.  I have been working all day, also, and I have things I need to do.   If you are too sick to go to work and take care of one child, then please keep that in mind if I catch the same thing a week later.  I rarely close due to illness because I realize that when I close I put 5-7 families out of work.  But this same illness that the parent couldn't work with nor take care of one child with, I am working with and taking care of 5-7 children, not just one.  So please finish your work as soon as possible, do not stop on the way home, but come as quickly as you can to pick up your child so I can rest.

Communication and mutual respect.  Those 2 things keep me going long after my energy has left the building

 

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NCMOM, I think because you are in the daycare business, you are viewed differently. I used to be very respectful of picking my kids up on time and picking them up when they are sick. I know yu do more than just sit and watch kids. you implement programs and activities. By the end of the day you are spent like anyone else.

Some of the folks I work with that have children in day care have to pay a fee if they are late picking up their children. Have you considered doing that; especially for repeat offenders. By the way , I disagree that you are not teaching. Young kids learn at lot through play and interaction. Simple things like reading to them and letting them look at pictures in books teaches them a lot. My spouse works in a pre-school. When parents send in children that are sick, frequently they get sent back home with the parent. People need to think about others, not only are you as the care provider being exposed, so are the other children.


The things are speaking of NCMom are just common courtesies. I know when my son started Kindergarten I would have loved to have a better understanding of what the expectations for myself and my child were. i.e.- Your child should be reading a level 1 book. Well, what in the heck is a level 1 book. Throw me a bone and give me an example. I got the example after I asked, but why would you assume a parent of a K would know that? I went to all the school functions, and no one told me there.

Where are your little kids now?

Pooh, I think nowadays parents should be proactive in findout that information than waiting to get it from a teacher. Of course my opinion is biased because I am a teacher and my wife as well. She had our kids doing educational stuff when they popped out the womb!

I disagree that you are not teaching. That period is when kids learn the fastest and they learn by watching and copying everything around them.

I remember those days working in daycare- the late pick ups were repeat offenders. It was the same parents showing up 20 minutes after closing time day after day. It really made me feel bad for their children because I know they felt horrible being the last ones there everyday.

I think one of the most important things is for parents to be respectful of our time. Don't show up during my one 30 minute planning period and expect a conference with no notice- call ahead. Don't track me down and call me during my time with my family to ask something that could wait until tomorrow.

whatelse, I do have a stiff fee for late pick up but I don't implement it for emergencies. To me, that's the difference in home care and center care. However, I have had parents much prefer to pay that extra $20 to not have to take their child with them to pick up milk.

Thank you to those that say I teach. During the school year, I do run a preschool program in the mornings and I help the school age children with their homework. I ask parents to check the work in the evenings but I feel that evenings should be family time and parents that work should be able to relax with their children.

I try to provide a home environment while teaching. Even though the state and I knock heads quite often due to the fact they want my home to resemble a miniature school and I don't agree.

I also send sick children home, probably not as quick as a center will but I have state regulations to follow and the health of the other children to consider

I am very proactive. It happend like this. Teacher sends a note home- we tested your son and he is reading below his level (this is the beginning of the year). He should be reading a level 1-2 book. Please work with him on this. How am I going to find out what a 1-2 book is unless you tell me where to find out, or if you give me an example.

So I write the note back, send a book and ask is this what a level 1 book looks like.

Geez...

Pooh, usually the school library has books that have stickers on them noting levels. The school librarian is a great help. also the public librarian usually has a list of AR books (accelerated readers) for all grade levels for the schools in the area and they, too, can help you find the books on each level

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