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teachers: what is the biggest problem you face with today's parents?

by Angela_the GOLO Editor
Published Jul 15, 2008
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Alright teachers, let's hear it! What are today's parents doing that seems to be driving you nuts? Not all of us are model parents by any means, so give it to us straight.

We will talk about what parents are doing "right" in another blog. This is a space for you to tell it like it is.

 

 

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I'm going to use my wife's main complaint about parents.

When she has a discipline problem in her classroom, the common response was, "Not my baby!"

Another complaint is the total lack of response to progress reports sent home warning the parents of the child's academic challenges all year, and when it's suggested the child be held back a grade the parent complains that they were never informed.

today's parents dont believe their little angel could do any wrong...period.."we taught our child not to lie" well lying comes natural to them youngins

I am not a teacher, but I am always sending emails, and asking questions to the teachers and that probably drives them nuts.. Like if homework was a struggle, I will email them and let them know the problem, and how we got it finished or if we did not etc.. Probably wish I would send the stuff in done...

My mother and sister are both teachers. Their biggest complaint with parents is, they really don't care! Teachers can tell a parent something a million times, but they always get the same response, 'that their child would not do something like that, but they will "talk" to them'. Then the child keeps acting up or being rude, stealing, hitting, not doing work...etc. I feel so bad for the stuff teachers have to deal with. I could not handle it personally. It is always their fault no matter what is said, the parents always blame the teacher, never their 'perfect little angel'. My mom says it always makes her happy to see a parent admit that their child more than likely is the cause of the problem and actually try do something about it. This is something I will definitely take with me when I send my children to school, they need to respect their teachers. Parents need to realize that teachers are there to HELP, not harm their children.

Teachers have to teach, guide, discipline, and socialize children whom people didn't want to have in the first place. They are given the responsibility for these children whose parents don't care about them.

It is difficult being in the school system in today's society... for teachers and for parents. I think the main problem lies within the administration. I am sure there are parents that don't care or that don't speak enough English... But what about the parents that do care and help out and try to be involved in their child's education only to be shut out or told "there isn't anything we can do" Clearly there are major problems in education- we need to work together to make positive changes because our children's education is suffering.

"Most" parents are wonderful. They keep their child stocked with school supplies (proper ones), sign papers, come for conferences, and are extremely supportive of their child's academic career.

What gets me are the parents that will come to the school during the middle of class and want a conference. This is after ignoring the sign up times for scheduled conferences.

Parents that ignore the no rolling bookbag rule and send their child in with a rolling bag anyway. I list the reason why we do not have a storage place big enough for rolling bookbags. So the rolling bookbags have to sit outside the cubbies blocking the entrance for the other students. In case of a code red or a tornado drill, half of our class is assigned to be in the cubbies.

Keep in mind that I teach second grade, so there's nothing in their bookbags that would cause them to be heavy.

Let me end by saying, I do love my job. I just hate rolling bookbags (for the younger kids).

I'm about tired of teachers getting the biggest raises year after year. What about the rest of us(state employees)?

Bubba-Louie, most teachers agree with you. I know I do.

Bubba-Louie; Teachers are arguably one of the most crucial occupations in our society.

They (teachers) have to get a 4 year degree to work in a near minimum wage job.

You didn't list what your state job is, so how can you argue that your occupation is in great demand?

Many of the near-by counties have a teacher shortage year after year. How do you expect these counties to recruit and retain quality teachers if they are not adequately paid?

If you don't like your low-paying state job, how about going into the private sector?

You have a job! Quit your complaining!

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