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the motivation

by Durham Police ICAC
Published Jul. 12, 2008

One of the most common question I get, especially from parents, is what is the motivation for the adults to try and have sex with children by using the internet.  Typically offenders are classified in two groups, incidental and preferential.

Incident offenders are described as not necessarily having a sexual preference for children, but just a sexual desire and a lack of concern for how that is satisfied.  

Preferential offenders are sexual attracted to minors and usually have a certain age range they are attracted to.  I have seen preferential offenders that have a wide age range (8 -14 yo's) and some that are very specific  (3- 4 yo's).  I consider these offenders to be the more serious threat to children because they seek out and groom underage victims.

As to why they actually crave the sexual activities with minors, I don't have an answer to that, but they do.  The question I ask people is, "How long would it take me to convince you it is acceptable to have sex with an 8 year old?"  To which the typical response is, "You could talk forever and I wouldn't think it is ok."  To which I respond, "That is how long it would take to convince them it is not acceptable."

Remember that 1 in 5 children will receive an online solicitation.



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Oh okay...7 & 8 are different. :) If they were teenagers, that'd be a whole other thing!

Ice cream, BUT I do know what you're saying.

"Sad to say but - they don't have it...that you know of. You'd be amazed at what kids can hide from their parents online.:Sad to say but - they don't have it...that you know of. You'd be amazed at what kids can hide from their parents online."

Nope, my kids are 7 & 8. I'd know... :)

"And THIS is the reason my children DON'T have MS!"

Sad to say but - they don't have it...that you know of. You'd be amazed at what kids can hide from their parents online.

When my oldest son got yahoo mesesnger, someone came on talking to him. We had to fix that fast.

I think MS would be ok for children. You make their profile private, use your email address and have everything sent to you email and MONITOR it.

Thank you.

Ginger I am not aware of any, but I know this issue is near and dear to Attorney General Roy Cooper and the SBI. Both have been working diligently to address those concerns.

One of my relatives is an attorney who specializes in building/prosecuting cases against Internet predators. The details would make anyone heartsick.

Durham Police ICAC, do you know of any local and active groups that are lobbying (I'm quessing that's the word) the State Legislature in regards to toughening the laws? If so, please direct me, I would be very interested in joining a group that is actively involved in this endeavor. I don't think a change of this size would come from the wishes of one woman. Thanks in advance.

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