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Published Jul. 1, 2008

You all, I am reaching to GOLO for prayers. This is a friend of the family and was supposed to be a best man at my nieces wedding. Now, the groom is going to be a pallbearer at the funeral...He was so young, and this is not fair!

This is long, but please read all the way through.

 

Teacher, mentor drowns at UMBC

Death of Upward Bound counselor, 25, is likely accidental, police say By Gus G. Sentementes |Sun reporter June 28, 2008

Deon Oneil Henry Jr. had the summer off as a health education teacher, so he decided to take a job working with 38 low-income high school students in an Upward Bound program.

One of nine counselors in the program, Henry, 25, helped expose students to what life could be like for them in college. His days were filled with teaching and recreation sessions, including swims at the indoor pool at the University of Maryland, Baltimore County, where the program was based for the summer.

But during one of those recreation sessions Wednesday night, Henry died in what authorities preliminarily believe was an accidental drowning. According to a Baltimore County police report, Henry tried to see how long he could hold his breath while swimming with at least one friend, but never surfaced again.

A lifeguard pulled him out of the deep end of the pool and, with help from bystanders, tried to resuscitate him, to no avail, as students and other counselors looked on, according to the police report and an Upward Bound official.

Henry, a 2006 graduate of Morgan State University, was engaged and had a 1-year-old son with his fiancee, Brandy Timpson.

"We're just taking it day by day," Timpson said yesterday in a brief telephone interview.

A report on the cause and manner of Henry's death from the state medical examiner's office was not immediately available yesterday.

Timpson said her fiance joined Upward Bound after one of his co-workers at Southwest Academy in Catonsville introduced him to the program. At first, he applied to be a part-time teacher, but he accepted an offer to be a full-time residential counselor. As part of his job, he lived at UMBC and taught and supervised the students day and night, she said.

Upward Bound offers year-round educational and other programs for economically disadvantaged children. The Community College of Baltimore County works with Upward Bound throughout the year at its Dundalk and Catonsville campuses, according to CCBC and Upward Bound officials.

But during the summer, Upward Bound runs a program that exposes high school students to a college environment. Because the community colleges don't offer housing, Upward Bound has an agreement with UMBC to use some of its dorms and recreational facilities.

Pamela Jackson, Upward Bound's director at the Dundalk campus, said she did not know how many students may have been present when Henry was pulled from the pool. But she said counseling services have been made available to the group. Though he had been with the students less than two weeks, Henry had built a "pretty solid" level of trust with the students, she said.

"It was a very traumatic experience because he was so full of life, because he so engaged the students," Jackson said.

County police officers were called to the campus at 8 p.m. Wednesday, arriving to find the indoor pool's lifeguard, Evan Roseberry and bystander Violeta Rus, 53, performing cardiopulmonary resuscitation on Henry, according to the police report. Paramedics took Henry to St. Agnes Hospital, where he was pronounced dead at 8:56 p.m.

Police interviewed Roseberry, Rus and other witnesses. Rus, a doctor, told police she was swimming when she saw the lifeguard pull Henry from the pool. She told police she helped try to save him until paramedics arrived.

Roseberry, 20, told police he saw three others swimming with Henry when the counselor went underwater and "failed to resurface." Roseberry dived into the pool to rescue him.

Another witness, Arnold Dukes, 32, told police that Henry went underwater to see how long he could hold his breath. Henry remained underwater for an "extended period of time," and Dukes called for Roseberry to help him, according to the report.

Bill Toohey, a spokesman for the Baltimore County Police Department, said that officers investigated Henry's death and determined that it was accidental.

"We've gotten no indication of any criminal activity," Toohey said.

Jackson, the Upward Bound administrator, said officials are paying close attention to the students' needs.

"A few of the students were distressed," Jackson said. "Hopefully, students are beginning the healing process."

 



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Very Sad my prayers are with the family and friends!

Sad, indeed. Prayers are with you this day.

So sad I'll pray fro the family. The poor baby will never have the dad in there life how sad.

This is sad ,God bless his famiy and fiancee,praying for them.

I will be praying. Steph

I am so sorry for this. But I got to add something. My brother had 2 sons out of wedlock. The mother of his children WOULD NOT marry him. He tried. He begged, still she said no. Just because you aren't married to the father of your children doesn't mean that the father isn't there, physically and financially.

There are things that happen. Sometimes we don't have the answers. I worked ( volunteer ) rescue for 25 years. It does not matter if you know the person or not ----- it really hurts when you do. Prayers are with you friend. It is never nice.

i will be praying for his FAMILY, including his fiancee and child.

"Henry, a 2006 graduate of Morgan State University, was engaged and had a 1-year-old son with his fiancee, Brandy Timpson. "

dj...just making sure that you read this in the article. that comment you just left has to be one of the most asinine comments that i have ever read on golo. for one thing, he may have left his inheritance to his child and fiancee even if they were not married. regardless, married or not, the fiancee and child are dealing with the loss of a loved one. that loss of a loved one hurts, whether or not they are married.

furthermore, you need to realize that sometimes kids are better off if the mother and father are not married. this is true if the mother and father simply cannot get along anymore, or if there is some characteristic of the father that simply makes him not a good role model.

...had a one year old child out of wedlock...he can never make that commitment and change that now.

I know a lot of people don't care if babies are born without a legal commitment between the parents, for marriage is a big decision and people don't want to jump into it, and if married, they might have to pay for the delivery, and not qualify for WIC, etc.

This guy was out there trying to help needy kids, other people's kids, so I know he had it in him to make the commitment that his child will one day wonder about the meaning of.

Men, stand up and take on the role and commitment of a father, offering the mother and child your name, your inheritance, and yourself.

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