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euthanasia: human vs. pet

Published Jun. 17, 2008

This weekend I had to put my baby girl Miko to sleep. She was not actually a baby anymore at 17 years, but this cat was my favorite thing in the world. I had had her since I was 9 years old! I don't think I'll be able to say that about anything anymore. But Miko was very sick. In January, she was diagnosed with both hyperthyroidism and severely worsening kidneys. These two negatively affected each other. She lived a pretty good life for the past few months, but the last 2 weeks she had been deteriorating at a fast pace. A Maine Coon breed, she had once been easily 16 pounds and had dwindled down to 6. She was nothing but fur. In the final week, she took to sitting in the bathroom -- a very odd choice, but then that is what happens. Saturday night / Sunday morning, she woke me up crying. She was uncomfortable. She had not eaten all day Saturday. She got in the bathtub, and that is when I had no doubt that it was time for her to go. She was asking me to do something about the pain she was in, so I did. At 5am I took her to NC State's emergency pet hospital and I let her go. I have never cried so much in my life.

That is the introduction to this blog. You see, when we talk about pets and being sick, we say that euthanizing them is the "humane" thing to do. It is without question the fair and right thing to do to put them out of their misery. They should not have to endure pain. So then why is it different for humans??

The Catholic church strictly forbids euthanasia as a "crime against life." Also, apparently Islam "categorically forbids all forms of suicide and any action that may help another to kill themselves" (from Wikipedia). Protestantism and Judaism also disagree with euthanasia but many denominations are divided on smaller points of the issue.

People can be against euthanasia for humans for many reasons. There's obviously the theological reason. Or it might simply be that a person thinks of euthanasia as murder or suicide and is therefore against it morally. Some may feel that euthanasia can only be voluntary if the patient is conscious, and sometimes obviously they are not. Some may hold out hope that some other medicine or treatment will help, even when all options have been exhausted.

The practice is divided into three sub-types: passive, non-agressive and agressive. Passive is most accepted, and involves simply withholding medication (such as antibiotics, etc.) that would prolong life. Non-agressive is withdrawing life support, and agressive is administering drugs or actions that will end the life.

Right now, some forms of euthanasia are legal in the state of Oregon, and in Belgium, the Netherlands, Switzerland, Luxemburg, and some Australian states.

So I am interested to know how people feel about this. Do you accept it for animals? What about for humans? If a person wants to die, should that not be a basic right as well? Is it truly "mercy killing" or just killing? Thanks for your thoughts.



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My sympathies to you - been there several times with wonderful pets. As to the euthanasia question - no, it should not be available to humans. It is just too slippery a slope. As several have pointed out there is little difference between euthanasia, suicide and abortion. If you extend the same logic as "getting out of misery" where would you put nursing home patients, babies who are deformed and/or retarded...etc. At what point do we stop? I also agree that euthanasia could be manipulated and corrupted too easily in the wrong hands. Like the abortion industry, it would become a money-making scheme.

Kaysie

Sorry for your loss. I had to do that in 2001 for my 13 yr. old shih tzu. It is a hard thing to do, but it is the right thing. I was right there with him until his last breath, I would never let him go alone. I have one now, and I will do the same thing when it's her time, she will not be there alone. Take care, time makes it a little easier, but you will always miss your baby!

Am so very sorry for your loss. I lost my very best friend of 15 years last year ans still cry when I think of her. Jade was my friend when I had no others and I went through almost the identical problems with her. Loss of weight, etc....and I carried her to the Emergency Vet Clinic at 11:30 PM because it was time. I held her as they administered the shot and cried and cried. I had her cremated and she sits in her mahogany box on my mantle. I am a firm believer if someone does not want to have life prolonged, you should respect that wish. As for me, I have asked for no extreme measures and have told my husband and children I would come back and haunt them if they went against my wishes! I have seens friends and family members suffer so much pain from cancer and other diseases....I would not put someone through that. Give me quality instead of quantity...I don't think the Lord in His infinite wisdom would disagree with someone being out of pain.

i know this was hard for you..but you did the right thing....i did everything to save my cat....5 vets...100 of pages of vet records...i remember the final vet....he simply held up all the vet records....and they were only from the last two vets and said..."its over, no one can save your cat" he had a mass in his intestines....we have been baggin him with fluids for months....it was long overdue...i wished i had realized how much pain he was in...doing the right thing is hardly ever the easy thing. and yes we should allow humans to die with dignity.

This issues can be debated 'til the end of time, and you will never see it the way your neighbor does. When you watch your mother fall ill to cancer and suffer like I watched my mother do, it can change your view of alot of things. I've had pets put to sleep for various reasons, and the thought crossed my mind, what would my mom want ? She wanted quality of life not quantity, as I suspect we all do...this is a personal choice, one that I'm not sure the gov't should be involved in...but they will be....Allison, so sorry about your beloved pet. I hope you find comfort...Stella

I'm so sorry for for you lose. Sounds like that was one lucky kitty though, being loved for so many years and having a mama that knew when it was tome to let go an end her suffering. I wish people had the same choice and weren't left to suffer in the end. I think Dr. Kovorkian (sp?) was doing a great thing for people who needed and wanted his help. If I was terminally ill and in unbearable pain, I'm sure I would wish for someone to let me go quickly and painlessly.

She had a living will but her "family" overrode that 3 times in the weeks prior to this 13 days period before the doctor said, no more. I struggle with euthanasia but after watching this process, I honestly wished many times that I had something to give her to ease her passing. Right or wrong? I don't know. I do know that I never saw her family there until the day before she passed. My son and I stayed with her everyday from about 5:30 until I took him home at 9 to put him to bed, then I went back and sat until after midnight, every night..you never know how you feel about an issue until you live it.

As for me, no tubes, no machines, and I'm with mrk, cremate me please.

This is a difficult decision. If it's a difficult one for us to make for beloved pets, can you imagine how hard it would be to make for a loved one? I watched a very much loved friend pass away from starvation. She refused to eat or drink anything for 13 days until she passed quietly. My son, 8 at the time, was the only one who could get her to drink even a swallow of water. He would suck some water up into a straw and dribble into her mouth. Unsanitary? probably but hey. He would come home everyday after school and wait anxiously until the daycare kids would leave and then beg to go to the nursing home to sit on the floor by her bed. He'd take his little cars and play quietly. Somehow she always knew he was there and would reach out for him. He'd stand there and hold her hand for as long as she wanted. She never said a word to anyone, for 13 days, other than his name.

I somehow lost my original post. I'm sorry for your loss, I've put down two and one died on the way to the vet. It was the right, although painful, choice.

I think we should have control over our death and be allowed to leave this world with dignity and without pain. I cannot imagine a compassionate God would let someone suffer when there are means to prevent it.

My reference to the Schiavo case represents my feelings that resources are limited and are better applied to those with the highest chance of survival - triage, if you will. Spend the money on heart transplants, cancer treatments for children, prosthetics for veterans.

happy, the same thing happened with my grandmother. She was dying of liver cancer, and my mom and aunts were instructed on how to give her morphine. My aunt Margaret gave her the final dose. She struggles with the knowledge that she gave the fatal dose, yet she knows that is what her mom wanted. She had been saying she wanted to die for several days.

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