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would you try to get out of it?

Published May 11, 2008
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So, a week or so ago (interestingly enough, right after one of my toughest finals) I was involved in an accident with an older gentleman (est. 1940). He merged into my lane without checking to see if I was there and just side-swiped my car. 

Now, this man had his wife in the car.  Both wrote narrative statements similar to mine, assumingly, as the police report read as the incident truly happened.  Moreover, this man apologized several times and at the very end, had the audacity to say, "God bless you." (You'll see why this statement was so audacious later.)

So, I call my insurance agency right after the police left, gave them my and the only witness's contact information, and left it at that.

That Monday (the accident occurred over the weekend), I get a call from his insurance agency. The agent wants to do a recorded interview.  I comply. (Apparently mistake number one.)  At the end, she reads the summary of his interview and states that there is a "difference of opinion" to a polar degree.  Basically, both this guy AND his wife lied their pants off.  So here I go, calling my mom (crying and irritated) right before my last and hardest final.  I was so upset that someone could not only tell an utterly complete untruth--He didn't even attempt to manipulate the real truth.  He and his wife just made up one of their own--but also that someone did so after utilizing the phrase "God bless you."

Needless to say, the police report and the witness proved this untruth-telling idiot wrong and his insurance agency (well his wife's company's insurance, apparently) is paying to have the damage fixed.

So, the question of the day, would YOU lie and try to get out of taking the hit (in regard to insurance payments) or would you tell the truth? 




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If I make a mistake, I own up to it. No sense in putting someone through he11 if they don't deserve it. I'm sorry to hear about your incident.

You have renewed my faith in the world! I just could NOT believe this guy and his wife! Not to mention the stress of my final finals with graduation literally a day after! Ugh.

Maybe he & she were remembering another accident that same day just confused the .... nah.

Stand-up,

Most people lie in this situation, live and learn.

My dad gave me excellent advice, which I have made it a point to follow. He said, "Don't lie. Aside from the morality of it, if you tell the truth you never have to try to remember which lie you told to whom."

I got hit by a Mexican, when the police arrived I insisted on calling their insurance at that time. The dude was speaking Spanish and giving bogus info. The cops where not helpful until I proved he was giving false info. I was saying 'Usted va a encarcelar, ha ha ha' He started speaking English and came up with the right info, quick.

No. If I make a mistake, I own up to it. I have never understood people who don't take responsibility for their actions.

The truth!!How dare them! I'm glad your ok!!

Sorry to hear this happened to you at all let alone at a time when dealing with finals. For me I just can't bring myself to lie about something that would have a huge impact on someone else. I couldn't sleep at night if I knew what I was doing was actually causing more harm than what I was trying to get out of. What Im really sorry to hear is how they said, "God Bless You" and then turned around and lied. Unfortunately that is what gives so many of us that believe a bad name.

Hope things are better for you now... Have a great night.

GOLO BOY, you are most certainly right about that. I didn't even think to make sure that the police report included all the relevant information and I was just lucky that this wonderful man stopped to be my witness. Otherwise, I'd be out of $1500 dollars + the cost of a rental!

I've definitely learned what to do and what not to do in this and similar situations.

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