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Published May. 9, 2008

I realize there are only 12 of us here, so I will repeat this blog next week. My gf/fiancee puts her daughter/granbabby totally first. I don't wish to whine, but where does the proposed new hubby fit in?  I guess me and da dog will be fine, though we need a hug.



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Jack. I tend to think that most women probably do this with a daughter and grandchild. I don't know her age. But, if you are truly in love; then it will be OK. When you marry her, you will spend much more time with her. Good luck. I have been a little gun-shy myself, since my last marriage.

Jack, I feel your pain...my hubby puts hockey totally first. Then the dog. Then work. Then me. (I think) Lucky for him, I love him but I don't really need him. :-)

What the hades is going on?

Why do you say the kid and grandkid come first?

IF you insist on blogging on this over and over, you need to also tell what is REALLY going on! What in hades happened?

TALK TO YOUR WOMAN ABOUT THIS, QUIT WHINNING ABOUT IT ON GOLO.

apparently you are a real simple needy man....if i were this woman i would refuse to marry you....her daughter and grand daughter should come first...you are a man....you are so replaceable..they are not. i think in all fairness you should give this lady a heads up about how you feel...but i will warn you....you are gonna be alone.

Take the comments from DJ and Old School and there is your complete answer. If you are uncomfortable with it now and it is causing issues, getting married won't resolve them. Best of luck in whatever you do.

Jackadoo, you are NOT happy with the way things are, and they are NOT going to change. You must learn either to accept things the way they are, for the significant other isn't going to quit loving the grand/kids, or you are going to have to pull back, get apart, and find whay YOU need from a relationship....and it ain't a dog, for you can have the dog either way. Be strong.

jack,

I think that you should sort this out before you go getting married. It's not at all unusual for a woman to put her daughter and grandbaby first. As long as you come a close second, she loves you, and really, that's more than many people have in this world.

I would talk to her though. Clearly it does bother you, and maybe there's a compromise in there someplace.

Jack, I don't know you that well but I like you. I just actually joined today but I have been reading comments for a long time. It sounds like you have history & the fiance' has history. What do you mean about her children/grandchildren coming first? First about what? Just curious...

how old is her daughter ? If shes an adult then momma needs to cut some apron strings

Good night Chet, good night Jack and good night for GOLO news!

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