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a little of my ms story

Published Apr 22, 2008
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I am a wife, mother, daughter, friend and "MSer".  haha  I was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis in June of 2002.  I have MS, but I refuse to let it have me!

I keep my sense of humor about me and try to keep on keepin' on as I always have.  I am an energetic go-getter person by nature.  MS is a disease that does its best to rob me of that-but I refuse to give in.  Sometimes it is hard to be strong, and sometimes I am not strong. However, I look at others with this unpredictable and sometimes crippling disease and feel so thankful that I can still walk, see, be pretty mobile, work, etc. Those are things we all take for granted each and every day.

I am one of those people that seem to have alot of people depending on me, so that is one of the hardest things to cope with when you have a disease that robs you of your strength and stamina at times.  There just doesn't seem to be enough of me to go around, ya know what I mean?!?

I have a wonderful family, and friends as well.  My workplace has been extremely understanding. And yes, the boss knows I have MS(alot of us hide it as long as we can). I am on a 4 day work week now, and it helps some.  I am blessed to have health insurance that provides me with the opportunity to have my weekly injection of Avonex, a medication designed to help stave off the progression of MS.  So far, so good. I just had an MRI this month, and guess what?-No new lesions/scarring on my brain!  That is wonderful!

After being a single mother for 10 years, and saying I would NEVER marry again, (never say never) I met an extremely handsome and wonderful man and we married in 2001.  So, he has had to deal with this from almost the beginning of our marraige.  My daughter, on the other hand, who at that time was just 14, had to adjust to "Supermom" being just "Semi-Supermom" at times when I felt like crap.  I cannot say how I feel to have such a wonderful support system.  My mom is retired and moved a few miles away from us, which is great.  She pitches in and helps me out alot. My oldest helps me get the kids to school in the morning, cuz she is a "grown-up" now.....kind of.   And in January......... we acquired 2 more children; my husband's two kids are living with us now-they are great kids!  That is alot for an old lady of 44 to take on when my oldest is 20, what ya think?!?  But I am hangin' in there.

Well that is enough about me for now.  I just hope that someone can see this and be inspired by it, somehow see that we all have to sometimes draw from a strength inside we didn't even know we had.   Thanks again to all who have shown interest in my blog and have a wonderful day!

 

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hey girl, I don't see where to donate ??

look on the first blog i did today..........there is a link on there..........thanks jackadoo

My mother has lupus which is similar to MS. She inspires me of everyday. I can't imagine what it would be like to wake up in the morning and not know if your going to be able to get of bed or not. Very inspiring story. Good Luck to you!

What a truly touching story rene. Although I do not have MS my sister in laws mother has it, and has so far been blessed with a seemingly productive life. I do believe my sister in law is now starting to show signs of it as well. I wish you peace, happiness, and healing in your life. Your an inspiration to others who have it, that life is not over just altered.. Be Blessed!~Kim

You are an inspiration to all. Good luck.

Thanks to all. Here is the link again to the MS Walk site, if anyone is having difficulty.

http://walknct.mationalmssociety.org

follow the links to donate and when you get to search for a team, type in Cindy's Stingers and take it from there!

My prayer's are wih you and i admire you fore your atitude.This will help you more than you think.We are what we think.God bless you.

Keep strong!!!!!!!!!!

wow! you are such an inspiration! i wish you the best and thank you so much for sharing your story!

Thanks so much for sharing this. Glad you're doing well.

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