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eskimos don't need ice!

Published Nov. 15, 2007

I was at a networking event earlier this week and my friend whispered, "I'm telling you, don't talk to him (pointing to someone across the room), he'll try to sell something to you...he could sell ice to an Eskimo!"

First of all, it's true, I appreciated the information and had absolutely no desire to talk to him.  But, I want to make it clear, it's not because of his Superman-ish ability to sell ice to eskimos and whether I (AKA - Kryptonite) could stand up under the pressure.  No, I didn't want to talk to him because I don't like to be sold to.  

Seriously, doesn't it drive you crazy when someone tries to push a product or service on you?  Salespeople are taught all kinds of tricks and gimmicks to try to manipulate people into purchasing.  Curious. 

Truly, I find this curious. 

I don't know about you, but I like buying things.  And, if you're like me, I buy things on a daily basis.  Sometimes, it could be a splurge or out of necessity, but you and I buy big ticket items too!  Unless I'm having a particularly fiscally challenging week, it feels good to buy things.  I like it.

So if we like to buy things, why are salespeople taught to manipulate?

Good question.  These techniques continue to be taught because, to be fair, sometimes they work.  But I would imagine (imagine with me...come on, you can do it!), many of these "purchasers" regret their decision.  Now, there's an unhappy client and the business has to increase the size of their customer service department.  Customer service reps get frustrated with the never-ending barrage of ill-suited clients and customer service goes down, client leaves in disgust.  Vicious cycle.

Wouldn't it make more sense for salespeople to be taught to find the clients that want to buy what they have to offer?  Wouldn't it make more sense for a salesperson to be rewarded for finding a client that not only does repeat business, but is such a raving fan that they refer more business?

In my opinion, salespeople need to focus on the right market and learn to position themselves in the market so that people/businesses can understand if they are the right client.

And above all else, be ethical - how in the world does the salesperson sleep at night after selling ice to an Eskimo.  Eskimos don't need ice!

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More information about Deidre Hughey can be found on her company's website or on LinkedIn.



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the cure is the decision to treat each other with respect and decency

"We will forever be doomed to salesmen." Hey, we're not ALL obnoxious, though we seem to get lumped into the same heap as a result of the sterotypical salesperson (i.e. Herb Tarlek from WKRP in Cincinnati).

"Greed will drive humanity farther into this pit...as long as people want money." Unless a person is a self-sufficient, self-contained entity, money is a realistic desire. Most of us NEED money in order to survive. I would simply state that we need to make a decision in our lives (whether we're salespeople or not) to be ethical and treat each other with decency. It is a choice.

In every profession, there are people that treat their occupation with high ethical standards and a caring for humanity and others that take short cuts and step on others for their own cause. It's a personal decision.

We will forever be doomed to salesmen. Greed will drive humanity farther into this pit. as long as people want money.. they will come up with more efficiant and crafty ways to get it, no matter who it angers or bothers. we can complain all we want.. but there is no cure.

And to add insult to injury concerning my last post, the lady sounded like she was from India. Another words, the woman has - like so many - stole another job from one of us American workers. I wish I could email her a large version of my icon flag so it would remain on her computer screen indefinately.

I called my credit card company the other day ONLY to request my dividend dollars (not much @ 1%). Well, after getting that taken care of, she immediately started her post-card reading to me. I KNEW it was coming. I tried to interrupt her by saying, "Naaa, that's ok". Her reply was, "Well, oookkk...but BLAH BLAH BLAH". She went on and on and on. Again, I said, "No thanks, I don't want your insurance on my miminum payment in case I get disabled". Then here we went again. "Well...ookkk...BLAH BLAH BLAH". This time I interrupted her and said, NO THANK YOU, I don't want a blank check sent to me to use any way I like". This time, her response was, "Well thank you for being such a good customer. Have I answered all your questions satisfactory?" I tell you what...I wanted to reach through that phone and yank her tounge out so she'd shut up.

No thank you, I'm not interested but you have a great day!

"And by the way, I can't go to the mall anymore because I'm too afraid of the cutthroat kiosk workers who all but reach out and grab your arm when they're trying to sell you something. I really intensely dislike those people."

I know what you mean -- we were walking through a mall the other day and it felt like a marketplace in some third-world country. "You want some lotion, pretty lady?" "May I clean your glasses, sir?" "Wouldn't you like a beautiful new watch?" Gah! Don't touch me! Leave me alone!

Exactly! I can't even tolerate girl scouts ambushing me to buy cookies on the way out of a market, let alone an aggressive salesperson. I'm a pretty savvy consumer and I do a lot of research on my investments, products and services. I do not respond to that sales pitch poo. If I want your offerings, I will come to you.

And by the way, I can't go to the mall anymore because I'm too afraid of the cutthroat kiosk workers who all but reach out and grab your arm when they're trying to sell you something.

I really intensely dislike those people.

Lol yacs. I just hang up. There's a very amusing phone call on www.ebaumsworld.com [you'll have to look for it because it's blocked for me here at work] between a British Telecom representative and a client durring dinner. HILARIOUS!

Anyway, when I got hired at the place I currently work at, there were no rules requiring referrals or pushing products and services...and starting next year we have to have at least sold one thing a week. Not hard if you're selling toasters or something...but when it comes to people's money, you'd be surprised at the comments we get when we suggest a higher interest bearing savings account or CD...or to have them meet with a financial representative to plan for long term investments. People get really mean. I don't like the way this company is going and if it becomes mandatory to my continued employment here to sell someone something, I will soon be looking for another job.

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