Girls on the Run: 5 ways to emphasize real beauty, healthy body image for girls
It is hard to raise children who define beauty as something other than what they see.
Posted — UpdatedIt is hard to raise children who define beauty as something other than what they see.
As a species and society, we are very visually oriented. In addition, we are constantly being bombarded with media images of a physical ideal that is unrealistic for the majority of the population.
We forget that we have more than one sense. For example, I am always comforted by the smell of wood burning. The sound of a talented vocalist accompanied by an acoustic guitar feeds my soul. We also forget that people are not all attracted to the same physical attributes or characteristics. How we make someone feel is often remembered long after that someone remembers the details of our appearance.
Girls on the Run addresses the topic of positive body image and real beauty throughout their curriculum. This is especially important in the eight- to 13-year-old girls we serve because their own bodies are changing so much during this age range. That part of the life cycle called puberty happens to all of them at some point during this time period.
I was reminded of this recently while at a swim meet. My own daughter is 10 years old and the range of body types and sizes up on the starting blocks varied greatly. Girls need to hear from their parents that these body changes are natural and normal. They also need to know that these changes happen to girls at different times during this age range.
This can be especially disconcerting for the girls that are on the front or back end of the time curve. Girls who go through puberty early often feel like they have a spotlight on them. They stand out at a time when they might feel more comfortable blending in.
At the same time, girls who go through puberty later can often feel like they are being left behind or left out of some special life club. I often recommend parents obtain and read the book, “The Care and Keeping of You," by American Girl. It is a good way to start the conversation about what to expect at home.
Here are my top recommendations for ways to encourage your children to think of beauty and body image in a healthy way:
Take the time to view online and TV images of girls and women with your daughter and discuss your perceptions of what is realistic and unrealistic. This topic is also directly discussed in the GOTR curriculum.
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