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Published: 2011-12-23 09:44:00
Updated: 2011-12-24 11:42:05

Durham Rescue Mission: 'Everyone has a Christmas'


 Durham Rescue Mission Christmas celebration
 Durham Rescue Mission Christmas celebration
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Tony Gooch has a single goal for the Durham Rescue Mission's annual Christmas dinner and giveaway: "No one leaves without anything, and everyone has a Christmas."

To fulfill that mission Friday, it took 552 volunteers to feed 2,858 people and give away 12,000 toys, 9,843 pieces of clothing and 12,000 bags of groceries. More Info     Coats for the Children 800x600 Donate to Coats for the Children

"I think the need is greater because the economy is low now," volunteer Terryca Taylor said.

"I've been doing rescue work for 42 years now, and I've never seen it this bad for this long, affecting so many people," rescue mission co-founder Ernie Mills said.

Families with children started lining up outside the rescue mission at 3:30 a.m. Friday, more than eight hours before the event began.

"They get here this early, because they're afraid they might not have a toy," said Gooch, the rescue mission's director of development operations.

Making sure children have gifts at Christmastime is close to his heart, Gooch said, after watching his single mother struggle to provide even one gift for her children some years.

"Being a father, it's always a joy to see a child smile. And that's what we want to hear. We don't want these children to not go without Christmas," he said.

The goal is to give each child three or four gifts. The children play games to win the toys, so it also gives them a feeling of accomplishment, Mills said.

"If this wasn't here, there'd be a whole lot of little boys and girls depressed on Christmas Day, because they don't have anything to open up," said recepient Ladarius Cash.

A few weeks ago, the rescue mission had only 15 toys, but after a WRAL News story on the situation, dozens of local companies rallied, raising tens of thousands of dollars and donating hundreds of toys.

Taylor asked children in her Sunday school class to donate their old toys.

"This is my first time seeing this actually, but it won't be my last, because I know there's a need. I know where we can give," she said.

Mother Raven Williams said she's grateful for the sacrifices of all the volunteers and donors.

"Lots of people didn't get anything for Christmas this year, so I would tell them I'm very thankful for them and to keep helping," Williams said.

In addition to giving toys to children and groceries and clothing to adults, the heart of the rescue mission's event remains Christmas dinner. Volunteers began roasting turkeys Thursday evening and kept on cooking overnight.

"We're going to have a wonderful Christmas dinner with all the fixings, turkey, ham, beans, corn and stuffing," Gooch said.

The Durham Rescue Mission's Christmas dinner and giveaway began at noon and continued until supplies run out.

"They're going to come out, fill their bellies and walk away with a smile on their face and groceries and clothing," Gooch said.


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I grew up on a farm and had 5 brothers and sisters. We often had very little for Christmas except plenty of love and affection from our parents. We all made it just fine and we all grew up to be successful and hard working. Today my house is paid for, 3 cars paid for and absolutely no credit card debt. My upbringing taught me the value of a dollar and honest hard work. Too bad the parents havent learned that and passed it on to their children. They prefer to stand in line for a handout rather than work. And I need to mention those women who are not marrried and have children with no way to support them. Somemtimes the hardship that people have is self imposed. I worked my way thru college and then grad school. The best place to find a helping hand is at the end of your own elbow. You only help people by allowing them to work and earn what they get. I passed a guy standing on the corner begging and he was on his cell phone!

"KIDS STILL DESERVE A CHRISTMAS NO MATTER WHAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!" - doloresbrown75"

Kids deserve love, food and shelter. Christmas is about love. Gifts are optional. Parents unable to afford gifts should explain to their kids why they aren't getting gifts. Instead many parents acquire more debt because of peer pressure. Now that credit is harder to get, people need to face the reality they ignored for years. If you don't have it, enjoy a meal together, bake some cookies, count your blessings and love your family. The rest is not necessary.

"you assueme they dont want any (jobs) what does that matter.........KIDS STILL DESERVE A CHRISTMAS NO MATTER WHAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!" - doloresbrown75

Screaming doesn't make it true. And it matters plenty if the parents don't want jobs. It's referred to as "the entitlement mentality": "Give to me, just because I want it."

Back to your screaming about KIDS. Yours is a knee-jump reaction. How do you know the kids "deserved" gifts, which is what you really mean? Because their parents told them they would receive gifts? I don't understand what you base your statement on.

Regardless, deserving something and affording it are different things. I deserve a nice home; I can't afford it. The best thing these parent(s) could do for their kids, instead of standing in line for handouts, is teach them that they have to earn money in order to afford things instead of propagating the entitlement mentality.

Oh, and Christmas isn't denied to anyone. Gifts sometimes are.

"I sure hope they help the right people."

Yeah, that's a Tea Party comment. Trust noone, it's all about me. MINE MINE MINE

I sure hope they help the right people.

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