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Published: 2013-02-28 00:02:00
Updated: 2013-02-28 00:09:59

Robbins woman to be buried at different church Thursday


Delphia Maness
Delphia Maness
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A Moore County woman who was denied burial at the Robbins church that sits on her ancestor's land and where her family laid grave markers 30 years ago will be buried Thursday at a different area church.

A funeral is scheduled Thursday for Delphia Lee Maness, who died Monday at the age of 69. She will be buried at Pleasant Hill United Methodist Church in Robbins, where her sons said they were welcomed with open arms after the burial dispute was featured on WRAL News.

Bernie and Todd Maness said Monday that they had planned to bury their mother at Acorn Ridge Baptist Church, but the church turned them away because she wasn't an active member there.

The brothers said their family donated the land to Acorn Ridge Baptist Church in 1891 and that dozens of their ancestors and family members are buried in its cemetery.

"My family gave them the ground it sits on," Bernie Maness said Monday. "Now my mom can't be buried there with her family."

In 1981, the family reserved four burial plots for Delphia Maness, her husband and two sons. Bernie and Todd Maness said the church had no rule at the time that only church members could be buried there.

Pastor John Williamson said Monday that the decision was made by the church's Board of Trustees and that his hands were tied. He and other church leaders declined to speak Tuesday. 

The Maness family also donated land to Pleasant Hill Methodist Church years ago, and the cemetery there is named after them.


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In reference to the Acorn Ridge story: In 2004, the same thing happened to my family at Acorn Ridge. We have told no one, but I believe the time is right for the whole story to be told.

Forgive me Lord, But my Brothers and I would be digging a grave on that lot.I kept my mouth shut till now. But a hole or several holes would be dug, or someone would have to pry the shovel from my cold dead Hands.

@stanglvr -

if these are the "facts", why where they not relayed to anyone...and why do they chose not to comment?

I live in robbins and let me set some of the facts straight. I know this church and the pastor well. It's his way or none at all. This is not the first family that had arrangements for family burial that when the time came they were turned away with an unkind message. Also there have been others buried there in the past few years that were not members. Its about who you know. This is not the christian way to turn your back on people in there time of need. Now those are the real facts.

@stanglr

I just looked on the map of Acorn Ridge. It looks as though the church cemetery has lots of room for expansion. The road goes to an empty field with NO headstones. To be sure the church could have allowed her a spot on this EMPTY ground!

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