Conference helps moms, daughters navigate middle school
Michelle Icard, a Charlotte mom and expert on middle schoolers, is bringing her popular conference to Raleigh.
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Icard will cover all things middle school during the afternoon, including brains, beauty, boys, peer pressure, girls in advertising and social media. She also will hold an “ask me anything” panel for the moms while the girls learn about “friends and frenemies.”
Middle school can be tricky for just about anybody. The goal with Right in the Middle is for moms to help their daughters find and keep a strong sense of identity, self-worth, joy and community through these years. There are guest presentations, breakout sessions, interactive games and more.
"The greatest tool in any transition is having the language to communicate through it," Icard says. "If we aren’t careful as parents, we can begin to feel foreign to our kids in their middle school years. The gift of Right in the Middle is that mothers and daughters will be given a passport for the journey. They’ll learn what to expect in middle school, be given a common language, and become sensitive to what the other is thinking and why."
In addition to Icard, girls and their moms will hear from a local school counselor and a teacher of Athena's Path, the girls leadership program Icard created. And big favorite for the girls are the high school interns who, throughout the conference, will share their Top 10 list of things they wish they'd known in middle school.
Icard tells me that most moms have to drag their girls to the program, but, by the end, there are lots of hugs.
"One of my favorite moments in every conference comes at the very end," Icard tells me. "I see the girls come into the event reluctantly. They aren't sure why their moms made them come. They're a little embarrassed, awkward, resentful. Very typical middle school stuff. And then after three hours, I see these same girls crawling into their moms laps, holding their hands, whispering to them. It's one of the most magical things I've experienced, and I get to experience it several times a year."
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