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24 ways to make him crazy about you

Posted May 9

When it comes to men, what you think might attract them actually turns them away. Men are completely different from women, so to make your life a little easier, here’s a 24-step guide that will leave him always wanting more of you:

1. Show off your natural beauty

Makeup highlights your beautiful features, but don’t underestimate how much men love the natural look. Surprise him by switching between wearing makeup to flaunting your natural look.

2. Make him work for it

Don’t overdo it by playing hard to get, but at the same time, don’t make it too easy for him. Show him you’ll only be with someone who treats you the way you deserve to be treated, and that you’re not willing to fall for just anybody.

3. Be yourself

Don’t try to act like the woman you think he wants. That could send the message that you’re desperate. Just be yourself.

4. Don't always be the first to call

There’s nothing wrong with making the first move, but it’s bad sign if you always make the first move. It might be difficult to resist calling or texting him again, but if he’s not putting in any effort, he’s not worth your time.

5. Be kind to his friends

If you can win over his friends, you’re already halfway there to winning his heart.

6. Don’t be jealous

Swallow your jealousy if you can. If the problem is serious, share your feelings in private. Jealousy has a tendency to eat away at your relationship if you don't address the problem.

7. Make him laugh

The more you laugh together, the more time he’ll want to spend with you.

8. Keep living your life

No man wants a women who is just waiting around to get married. Keep making plans with your friends and family.

9. Stand up for yourself

Never apologize for who you are. It’s one thing to make amends for something you did wrong, but never let anyone try to put you down or change who you are.

10. Awaken a small hint of jealousy in him

The secret is in the word “small.” You can subtly point out what you find attractive in other men without going to extremes that make him think you’re seeing someone else. Don’t try this if you’re married, but if you’re trying to get a guy to notice you, a little jealousy can help him realize he’s into you.

11. Be mysterious

Don’t tell him your whole life story on the first date. Hold a little back and leave him wanting more.

12. Take charge

Show him you can be independent. There’s nothing wrong with being a little untraditional. Plan a date and take him out!

13. Take care of yourself

This aspect is much more important than just your physical appearance. Take care of yourself emotionally, too. Go on a walk, soak in the tub or relax at the salon to be the confident and calm woman any man would want to date.

14. Use social media in your favor

The modern world has given us the gift of social media — use it to your advantage. Post a photo to keep him thinking about you.

15. Discover his interests

Step out of your own bubble for a while and listen to him. Find out what he enjoys doing, what his favorite food is and how many siblings he has. Men love women who know how to listen.

16. Put the heels aside and go on an adventure

Let him see all the different sides of you. Amongst your nights in, dinner reservations and trips to the movie theatre, plan a few outdoor adventures. Go on a hike, ride bikes or play a game of basketball together.

17. Dress up

Wear something that makes you feel beautiful inside and out.

18. Don’t make him your first priority

Your spouse should be one of your top priorities, but while you’re dating, make him work for that number one spot.

19. Cook for him

As the saying goes, the way to man’s heart is through his stomach.

20. Buy something together

Once you’ve been dating a while, consider making your first purchase together. Buy a few kayaks or a day pass to an amusement park. Make it something simple but big enough to be a step forward in your relationship.

21. Love yourself

The more you love yourself, the bigger chances you have of him falling for you.

22. Smile

Show him your sweet smile — sometimes gestures say far more than words ever can.

23. Take care of your skin

Show him you love your body by taking care of it. Moisturize, stay hydrated and use sunscreen to keep your skin healthy and happy.

24. Express your gratitude

Use good manners and always say thank you. Men love women who show their appreciation.

These 24 simple things will have the right man falling in love with you in no time. Watch for men who do these things for you, too, because a man who truly loves you will do everything he can to prove it.

Mariel Reimann is the Content Director at KSL Latino. She's studied law at the National University of Cordoba, currently resides in Salt Lake City, Utah. Email: mreimann@ksl.com.

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